Pregnant?!

[Duds]

Help im freaking out,, dont even know where Im supposed to write this (pls move it if put in wrong place) I have been feeling rough for a week now - hot flushes,nausea and funny tingle in boobs.
I have just done a pregnancy test as I wanted to double check as the symptoms were all familiar & its positive !

I cant get hold of my mum or close friend and my hubby is at work, i cant get my head around it - we only did it once unprotected this month & it took me a year with Aimee! Obiously I was still aware it "could" happen but didnt think it really would.
Dont get me wrong I know people would give their right arm to be in my position & I know im truely blessed.

Im just so scared, confussed, terrified.

I had a terrible pregnancy with Aimee and was in and out of hospital for the duration what happens if it happens again... shes still only just 10 months

I find it difficult with one .... how am i going to cope

sorry i dont know if this makes any sense...

 

First of all hun
It must be a heck of alot to get your head round if you weren't planning on it to happen so soon. How do you feel though? Are you happy to be pregnant or are you really not sure? When does OH get in from work? I think you really need a big chat with him sweetie xx

 

[Duds]

I dont know how I feel, I did always want another but just didnt expect it and hadnt started trying yet. Cant get my head around it, maybe the test is wrong, I might do another.... I have the most sweaty palms in the world right now!
Havent even discussed it with OH.... oh god what happens if he doesnt want it....

 

[kirlykird]

you won't know until you've talked about it.

Have a good chat this evening and I agree with Sami, you really need to talk this through!

Good luck

 

[fran_23]

oh hun
well i dont think you can get a false positive.only negative, so its probably not wrong...i cant imagine how you must feel i know it must be a shock, and easier said than done but as the others have said try and keep calm till you can talk it all out with your OH.
i hope your ok! xx

 

False positives are pretty rare, especially given your symptoms, but I wuld do another test to be certain. Did you get a double pack? When are/were you due on?
Do you think he will be happy if you are? Hope he isn't home too late tonight xx

 

[nicki]

Oh hun. I'm sure once the shock has worn off & you talk to DH you'll feel better about it. Let us know how things turn out

 

[angiemum2b]

Oh duds I've just read your post I hope it's what you want even if it's a shock to start off with.

Talk to your DH and see what he thinks.

 

[cassi]

hun i hope everythingv goes ok fopr you im sure it will be a great thing when the shock has gone but understand what its like at first when unexpected

cas xx

 

[Lucy]

congratulations Duds

That must be a shock and I hope you and your DH have a nice chat tonight to make you feel better.

Lucy

 

[Em78]

So sorry i wasnt on last night s i didnt see this

hope you are doing ok today hun. i know it must seem scary now - i can imagine my reaction - but once things settle i'm sure all will be fine.

pm me if you need to chat hun.

and congratulations!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Hun i hope ur ok and had a nice long chat with ur DH

 

[Duds]

Thanks for the support, my heads a bit all over the place right now but I feel ok.
Spoke to DH (after made him a massive G&T!) and he was very shocked, he wouldnt believe me &l I had to show him the test & then he said it was an old one from Aimee so told him to touch it to see that it was still wet but apprantly i'd put water on it! ! lol
It eventually sunk in I think, im still not sure how he is feeling as not much more was said. We just sat in silence.
The only thing he did later say which is what I feel also is it feels so different to when i fell with Aimee as she was very planned & we were so excited, i just feel pretty scared at the moment which I feel guilty about... im hoping once its sunk in the excitement will come.. I know we do both really want this baby...

 

Hi sweetie it's good to hear from you. I think when it isn't planned men find it quite a big shock to get over. Women have the natural maternal thing that kicks in, men often take longer to digest it. I'm sure he'll speak a bit more when he has had time to take it in. Am I allowed to say congratulations to you?

 

[Duds]

yes of course Thank you

At the end of the day we are really blessed we are able to bring another little life into the world.
I'll have to wrk out how far i am now & i havent taken folic acid which im worried about - i hope everythings ok....

xx

 

[ToriElla]

congratulations! you'll be fine, i'm sure.

i'm TTC soon so we may be pg together! we would have been last time too xx

 

[nicki]

I'm glad telling your DH went well (typical man tho not believing you! like you'd go to all that trouble )

I guess its time to say CONGRATUALTIONS then

 

Awww I'll say it properly then,

Congratulations!! xxxxx

 

[kirlykird]

congratulations!

 

[Urchin]

WOW Duds congrats!

On the bright side: it'll be loads cheaper having them close together! And at least you don't have months of TTC to go through again.