nikki32393
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Please help me!! I'm freaking out. I have been dating this guy for about 7 months now, but the last month has been very difficult to even see each other with our schedules, & he is leaving for 3 months in February so we knew it was gonna have to end and we would stay in touch. I like him A LOT - We have a lot of the same morals, beliefs, interests, etc. and maybe in another time we would have worked out more seamlessly. We were both traveling a bunch last month and didn't see each other so I was more lackadaisical with my birth control and missed a few. Of course we hooked up when we saw each other & I just found out that I'm about 3w pregnant. I know he is going to lose his mind and I have no idea how or when to tell him. I was thinking about waiting till its more likely its gonna "stick" & telling him then, but that will have to be over the phone because he's going home (3 hr plane ride) till April. I'm really worried about how he is going to react...We both come from traditional homes and are very family oriented. I know he wants kids just not necessarily now and not necessarily with me. He really trusts me & I'm worried he will think I am trying to trap him given the flimsy nature of our relationship the last month and that he makes a lot of money. I could easily have the baby & collect child support, but I don't want to do that & I don't want him to resent me. I will be 26, him 29 when the baby comes. So we are old enough but I can't do it alone. Please advise.