Pregnancy after MC

[Jellybean86]

Ok so I found out on Monday I am pregnant. I had a mc in August and now I'm pregnant again. This time started off feeling different to last time. I had sore breasts for the first few days but now that's gone. I get cramps on and off and am weeing a lot. I'm scared of another mc happening which I know is natural but I just worry that my lack of symptoms and loss of breast pain is a bad sign. Even though I've read everywhere it's normal for symptoms to come and go. I'm 4 weeks 5 days so I know it's probably way too early for much at the moment but I'm having a low day about it all and needed to vent!

 

[JomoMama]

Firstly, congratulations!
I had absolutely no symptoms early, only food aversions! Frankly if I hadn’t of taken a test I’d have absolutely no idea that I was pregnant. I didn’t really get any breast tenderness and I didn’t start to feel sick until I was 12 weeks, but then it eased off within a week. And now my baby is 20 weeks along and doing great, so no symptoms doesn’t necessarily mean anything bad! Just stay positive and remember that the odds are in your favour, and a happy mum = happy baby.
Wishing you all the best xxx

 

[Jellybean86]

Firstly, congratulations!
I had absolutely no symptoms early, only food aversions! Frankly if I hadn’t of taken a test I’d have absolutely no idea that I was pregnant. I didn’t really get any breast tenderness and I didn’t start to feel sick until I was 12 weeks, but then it eased off within a week. And now my baby is 20 weeks along and doing great, so no symptoms doesn’t necessarily mean anything bad! Just stay positive and remember that the odds are in your favour, and a happy mum = happy baby.
Wishing you all the best xxx

Thank you for your reply and congrats on your pregnancy!

Just an awfully long wait till my scan. Will feel better once I've had that!

 

[JomoMama]

Thank you!
Yeah I definitely found the weeks leading up to the 12 week scan excruciatingly slow - i would deffo reccomend an early private scan if you wanted some extra reassurance. x

 

[Jellybean86]

Thank you!
Yeah I definitely found the weeks leading up to the 12 week scan excruciatingly slow - i would deffo reccomend an early private scan if you wanted some extra reassurance. x

I might look into that. Got my dates for my initial midwife appt and my 12 week scan through in the post along with my blood test form so that makes it all feel a bit more real.

 

[Aurora_J]

I was the same at the start of this preganacy hardly any symptoms and convinced I was going to have another mc but then I hit 6 weeks and boy did the symptoms hit me like a ton of bricks. I think it's normal to not feel anything so early but we all worry.

 

[Jellybean86]

I was the same at the start of this preganacy hardly any symptoms and convinced I was going to have another mc but then I hit 6 weeks and boy did the symptoms hit me like a ton of bricks. I think it's normal to not feel anything so early but we all worry.

Did u have any that disappeared? My boobs were sore at implantation till about 3 days after my bfp and now that's gone.

 

[Aurora_J]

Yeah everything disappeared after I got my bfp. It really scared me I was convinced I was going to mc again.

 

[Kholl]

I had a miscarriage and got pregnant again immediately, the next cycle. It was terrifying. My symptoms were constantly disappearing too. 2 things that helped were getting hcg drawn to see a good number, and getting a scan at 10ish weeks. Otherwise, it’s just a horrible scary time. I only stopped checking for blood every time I wipe at like 26 weeks!

Congratulations!

 

[SesameSeed]

Massive congratulations Jellybean. Wonderful news. Try stay positive xx