Postnatal Depression or stress?

[babygirll]

Hi,
i had a babygirl 8 months ago and was over the moon i have never had any bad feelings towards her or felt that i dont love her but i split up with her dad about 4 mponths ago and i recently went back to full time education and had to put her in nursery, she also goes to her dads at the weekend now i am feeling very guilty that i dont see her enough and that i am a bad parent i cant stop crying and i dont know what to do i feel like noone is there for me even though i know i have a great support network im just too embarrassed to go to them. i am also feeling very tired at the moment. please help and thanks in advance xxx

 

[janebell22335]

Oh hun I know where your coming from I've been there i went back to work when my son was 8 weeks me and the father had split up after 7 years when my son was 4 weeks. I went back full time and my son full time at nursery it was so hard and i started feeling depressed had time on sick at work and made a change and went back to work 3 days and increased to 4 days when my son was 4 I was so much more happier and tax credits helped with the missing bit of wage. X x