Over the MC but now i feel like i'm being left behind

[kirstymichelle]

That is the ONLY bad thing about this forum. You feel like your left behind when you have a MC! Its like a permanant marker on where you 'should be'

Now i'm back to no ovulation, hormone imbalance , palpitations and the waiting game going nowhere at all , just stuck now cant even TRY because my body wont play x

 

[Kay Kay]

Oh kirsty hun I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I've never been in your shoes but I can imagine how much it must hurt to see others continue on with their pregnancies I'm bad enough having never been preg, watching all my friends getting pregnant with me the only one who's not. Its like you're life is on pause.

You always have us chick...even though it's the part of the forum no-one truly wants to be xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Vickyxx]

Aww hun I am sorry you are feeling sad, I often feel like I have been forgotten about as i watch all my friends and family settle in to parenthood.

Are you going to go back on clomid once your body recovers??

 

[laurat]

Im orry Kirsty. It is a horrible thing theres no getting away from it. I banned myself from going into the tri sections after my mc. That helped me but you need to do whats right for you. Milestones ate always difficult! Massive Hug and remember we are all here for you honey! Xxxx

 

[Gizzy Kelly]

Sorry you feel low I don't know how you feel but we are all here to support you xx

 

[LouiseB]

I don't think that feeling is specific to having a mc, it's just that your mc is how your efforts stalled and everyone on here has their efforts stalled in one way or another.

We all have reminders shoved in our face about our situation not progressing and the only thing you can do is just focus on the section that applies to minimise it and keep your distance otherwise

 

[kirstymichelle]

Thanks all! I just think its because i cant move forward thats doing it. If i was able to TTC then my mind would be taken off it; and back in to the dreaded TCC mode. Even that is better than this

We have been doing an extraordinary amount of BD though, i think its cos OH feels like there is no pressure, i'm not nagging him for sex. I might keep him like this lol,

 

[Hchee1979]

I know how youre feeling, I've just had my second miscarriage and seeing all the other girls who are due around the same time I would have been can be quite soul destroying on the wrong day. I've got to wait until my next period to start to TTC (i had a d&c on Feb 29th) so its a waiting game. My DH has been for his sperm analysis already and I can't have the blood tests until I start my next period so I'm soooooooo fed up.

Hopefully it'll all get better in the near future for us all.
Hang in there !xxx