yes ,ttc since september of last year.
the dr ive been to has been great.we have had blood tests and semen analysis and OH is low,suggested to quit smoking to bring that up and he is trying) but that dr is leaving and the others havent had the best attitude to me being pregnant
so thats a worry.
We are hoping to be referred to the fertility clinic end of July by the good dr,just before he leaves the practise unless im pregnant before then.
I feel im starting from scratch not knowing my body though.the two pregnancies i carried to term were out of the blue,no ttc and this is the first time me and OH are choosing to actually try have a baby.
Until we started ttc i didnt think about what it could be like,what my body might do or not do,time scales etc.Now its months along and its a major part of my thinking constantly and im worried that that 9 year gap is an indication of how long an unassisted pregnancy for me takes and that bilogical clock wont slow down for another 9 years of trying and the prospect of going that long even if i could just is overwhelming and really bleak.
Hoping its nothing like that.Ive had mixed opinions as well from drs.Ive seen endemetriosis (i was diagnosed with along side PCOS) being name checked as a possible factor in infertility in women and ive been told by a dr its got nothing to do with it at all.
if we do get to the fertility clinic i think im hoping for some clarity and answers to all the fears and what ifs.So much of the stress could be eased by just knowing what,if any,problems there are getting in the way of a successfull conception.