Hi girls,
I have been married for 4 years today! I am 25 weeks pregnant... the whole day has been a disaster!!! Could not go where we wanted for the day due to wind and heavy rain so went to spend some money in a lovely big department store...BUT my little girl (who is two and normally well behaved) threw a huge wobbly so we had to leave after 20 minutes of being there! Our evening family meal out (just the three of us) had to be cancelled because I knew that the wobbly was not completely over. We had an Indian at home instead and my daughter threw green mint sauce all over the dining room table....
BUT...
Then, when we actually go time to ourselves late this evening and I suggested some "affection" (which has not happened since becoming pregnant - I have also not felt like it) but DH pulled a face and said that there was no way he could have sex because of my bump and the fact that phsycologically he would think that his willy would be hitting the baby!! I replied asking whether it was the weight i have put on that turned him off but he said "not at all - it is just the thought of my lovely baby being a couple of centimetres away from my willy - it does not feel right!"
I understand that alot of men feel like this so I am not really down about it! Just wanted to share my anniversary with you all!!
Is your man fearful of sex with you now?
Julia xxxxx
I have been married for 4 years today! I am 25 weeks pregnant... the whole day has been a disaster!!! Could not go where we wanted for the day due to wind and heavy rain so went to spend some money in a lovely big department store...BUT my little girl (who is two and normally well behaved) threw a huge wobbly so we had to leave after 20 minutes of being there! Our evening family meal out (just the three of us) had to be cancelled because I knew that the wobbly was not completely over. We had an Indian at home instead and my daughter threw green mint sauce all over the dining room table....
BUT...
Then, when we actually go time to ourselves late this evening and I suggested some "affection" (which has not happened since becoming pregnant - I have also not felt like it) but DH pulled a face and said that there was no way he could have sex because of my bump and the fact that phsycologically he would think that his willy would be hitting the baby!! I replied asking whether it was the weight i have put on that turned him off but he said "not at all - it is just the thought of my lovely baby being a couple of centimetres away from my willy - it does not feel right!"
I understand that alot of men feel like this so I am not really down about it! Just wanted to share my anniversary with you all!!
Is your man fearful of sex with you now?
Julia xxxxx