Opinions please xxx

[vickib_1984]

I would like all of your opinions please on this..........we've done a sweepstake at mil pub to guess baby's weight winner receives a free pint and the total amount will go to my sons school, as most of you know he is autistic and the school specialises in this......anyhow sil is adamant she's taking the money in as she 'organised' it all, when I think as I'm the mother and the school obv know me very well and not her that I should take it in once baby is here.......do
I seem unreasonable at all???? Or do you think she's right and she should take it in????? Thank you xxxx

 

[BabyBrain]

Can't you both go? xxxxxxxxx

 

[kat86]

Hey hun, I agree with you!! I think it should be you that takes it in xxxx

 

[vickib_1984]

See I knew I wasn't being stupid!!! I dunno about both doing it I'd have to ask school etc xx

 

[charlie26]

Errrrrrr i think its ur baby so i cant see why she thinks she has the right to tell u! Who organzied it? Cheeky cow. I hate people like that trying to take over, tell her to do 1. xxx

 

[vickib_1984]

See that's what I thought it was only decided sat night that they would do it and then she said because I'm in hospital on Thursday morning and she has Thomas that she will take the money in on Thursday when she takes Thomas I haven't even told school that I'm going in yet and she will be taking him!!!!!

 

[charlie26]

Well she has no right laying down the law, its not her baby or her compertition. so she needs to butt out! maybe im just ranting cos im tired but sometimes people dont half piss me off trying to take over.

Like when i go in labour, iv got rules. Nobody is allowed to come to the hospital untill our little boy has seen the baby, its his sister and i dont want every1 else seeing her b4 him, No 1 is allowed to put any fotos on fbook untill me or oh have. Its my birth, my rules.

Might seem petty but iv made sure every1 is clear on what i want, save me stressing out later on. xxxx

 

[l_maclean]

I'd ask if you can both go. Simply to keep the peace. Maybe you could go when your able to take LO with you. Xxx

 

[vickib_1984]

Oh no I'm the same no one is to bring my son other than my husband when James is born or come before him also no one is to announce he here before us on fb either etc this is our son not theirs also Jonathan is to tell Thomas he's here first as well they may only seem like little things but they mean so much to us at the time I think I might suggest going together when I take James in xx

 

[charlie26]

Seems like we share the same opinions then, im just trying my best to make sure my lo doesnt feel left out. Ive also bought him a present im going to wrap it up and get him a card, from the baby to him. Just so he feels special aswel xxx

 

[vickib_1984]

We've got Thomas a pressie and a big bro card!!! Xxx

 

[vickib_1984]

I think I solved my issue!!!! Thomas is going to take it in with a pic when James is here!!! Yay for school suggesting it!!!! Xx

 

[charlie26]

Great news!! Least u dont have to fall out with the sil xxx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Seems like we share the same opinions then, im just trying my best to make sure my lo doesnt feel left out. Ive also bought him a present im going to wrap it up and get him a card, from the baby to him. Just so he feels special aswel xxx

I did that with my young brother and sister, worked very well!