oh bugger

[scottishterrier]

someone has told my dad(i presume my mum called him) he's just called(with an unhappy voice) to say he is on his way!

im so scared. i know he will give me a lecture on how irrisponsible im being and ultimately he'll try to convince me that abortion will be the best thing for all involved.
i have to be strong, but im one of those people who when on the spot can't answer reasonably and it isnt till days later i come up with good arguments lol

wish me luck girls ill need it

 

[Babylicious]

I'd go out

 

[Tiffy]

Just remember this is your choice, honey.

 

[Manda&Thomas]

stand your ground hun
manda xx

 

[fifi211]

You are really going through it at the moment. Maybe it won't be that bad, just remember that you are an adult and a mother who can make her own decisions.

Wishing you good luck and let us know how you get on.

 

[Steelgoddess]

Sorry have i missed something? Why on earth and how are you being irresponsible???

x

 

[Jade_Number1]

give him a hug and tell him you're still his little girl and that everyone knows you have kids so you can have granchildren (maybe thats just my parents.....!!!??)

 

[muppetmummy]

Good luck hun Just remember your an adult and it's up to no one but you how you choose to live your life

 

[floppit]

Hope it went ok?

Let us know when you can.

 

[NIE]

Hope everything went well. Was It as bad as you first thought? xxx

 

[scottishterrier]

Well it turned out he didn't even know !!

he was so odd on the phone "will you be in? im coming round" hung up etc
then he gets here and im waiting for him to say something to me and it never came lol. spoke to my mum and he doesnt even know!
so..ive told my mum she may as well tell him now. get it over and done with

ps i didnt mean he would call me irresponsible i think i meant well, parents want the best for their kids and he may have been a bit disappointed to hear my news.

phew looks like a i have a few more days or ignorant bliss for now

thanks girls. xx

 

[Manda&Thomas]

glad all is well hun you never no he might be pleased
manda xx

 

[littlepip]

Don't worry if ure dad does get angry when he does find out. when my dad found out he thought i was stupid and had a go at me then i just started crying and said fine ill go kill my baby then shall i and he said yeh you do that. i spent the whole night bawling my eyes out. now he's fine about it its just a shock at first. parents arent they great lol.