I was so adamant of not having any downs tests done as I've/we've decided that whatever baby is sent us we will love it. However when we went for 12 week scan at to hospital the sonographer was so rude and abrupt I didn't even get to see the heartbeat that we booked a private scan as I was 13 weeks it was book as the Nucal test but the guy was brilliant I told him I didn't really want the test done and he was fine had a great look at the baby and heartbeat it was soo clear. When he was scanning he said all looked really good and did we want him to look at the nucal DH said yes and I agreed and he said it looks normal (88% sure) so I am very very relieved. We have much better scan pics too but I forgot to bring them into work to scan them so will do it tomorrow.