Not sure what's best to do

[Emmam1982]

I started back on microgynon last April after splitting with my husband.
My new partner and myself want to try for a baby but I want to lose a few stone first.
Anyway...I was late ordering my pill last month and went on holiday, when I got back and finally got my pill picked up I decided to wait for af before starting on it again but now I'm unsure whether to bother starting on it again at all. Af is due this week and I had a few pg symptoms earlier in the week but got a bfn on a test yesterday and symptoms seem to have gone so just waiting on af arriving now.

 

[flexilexi394]

Oh my god you split from your husband?! I guess we have a lot to catch up on!! Well.... No point in going back on the pill if the time is right to have a bub! Xx

 

[Emmam1982]

Yeah I left him last April...he's nicely shacked up with a 19year old now but hey ho.
Had an on off relationship with my new partner since last June and we've been officially together since January but he's my soulmate...we're so alike it's scary and we just click perfectly x

 

[flexilexi394]

well there you go then! I am with someone that I was with before sofias dad! creepy eh! we have done 7 years apart and I dont plan on doing any more years apart from him!

Just go for it em, what will be will be girl xx

 

[Emmam1982]

I'm scared of what my mum will say and then there's work...I went back into care after having K and now I'm the deputy manager and have already been earmarked as the next manager in any new homes etc and don't want having a baby to make me out of touch with work...I've been looking into shared leave but not sure I'd want to leave baby x

 

[BunnyN]

If your ready start now. If you think you will be ready soon maybe stop the pill anyway? It can take a while to get regular cycles after coming off the pill.