andreatav
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Hi a bit about me, I'm from Scarborough moved to Leeds 18months to be with my (now) fiancée, we've been together 3 years this month(engaged for 2 years) I'm only about 3-4 weeks pregnant so very early stages A&M. But I told my mum the day I found out. I face timed her and her face dropped. Just oh we knew it would happen soon (we had a big family fall out in July and me and mum have just started talking again, thought the news of a baby would bring us all closer) her first response was we knew you'd do this out of spite. Well firstly I had my implant removed in March so we've been trying for 4 months, secondly I wouldn't want to bring a baby into this world out of spite and thirdly why can't you be happy for me?
Scarborough is only 90mins from Leeds by car(both her and my father drive) so it's not like it's far to travel(74miles) today she has been texting me saying I'm selfish for having a baby living so far away and she wants to be a hands on grandma for her first grandchild and I'm depriving her of that and she isn't going to get to see him/her grow up(although she referred to baby as IT) and she ants me to tell my sisters(twins, 21) I said I don't want to tell them till I'm at last 12 weeks, just in case I miscarry, but again I'm been called selfish.
I just feel like she's ruining what should be a happy and exciting time of my life, my partner is furious. I've tried talking to her saying while I'm on maternity lave we'll alternate travelling. But had no response. Anyone else had this type of problem?
Scarborough is only 90mins from Leeds by car(both her and my father drive) so it's not like it's far to travel(74miles) today she has been texting me saying I'm selfish for having a baby living so far away and she wants to be a hands on grandma for her first grandchild and I'm depriving her of that and she isn't going to get to see him/her grow up(although she referred to baby as IT) and she ants me to tell my sisters(twins, 21) I said I don't want to tell them till I'm at last 12 weeks, just in case I miscarry, but again I'm been called selfish.
I just feel like she's ruining what should be a happy and exciting time of my life, my partner is furious. I've tried talking to her saying while I'm on maternity lave we'll alternate travelling. But had no response. Anyone else had this type of problem?