Not even speaking!!!

[mushy1]

last night I fell out with my DH over something very very trivial!!! we hardly ever fall out but you can bet when wedo its always over something small.
Anyway came home from work tonight only to be greeted with nothingmore than a grunt for a hello and one word answers to my questions.........!!
This may soundsilly but he hadnt made me my tea which is very unusual for him!! I had a good cry and felt a little better but I am nowworried as its time to Bd and we are not even talking!!! If I dont get my BFP over a silly little argument I will scream!!!
Sorry to this pointless thread I just feel so much better after a little ramble on!!!!!!! and as ive just said theres nobody elseto talk to here!!!!! lol xx

 

[mushy1]

God I just realised how spoilt I sound about not having my tea ready................. just to put you in the picture the argument was over food!!!!! so it is relevent ......... sort of ....lol x

 

[Emmamb]

I hate arguments like that...it goes against all my principles but if I fight wiv hubby and want somethin ie bd then I admit I was wrong,apologise 4 been a moody bitch and move in 4 a cuddle,works everytime----even tho I'm always right!! Lol x

 

[mushy1]

Just tryingto work out whats more important this time.......Im usually exactly the same as you but this time I feel like i shouldnt back down and thats not like me!!!! Maybe its one of those things .... what will be will be....... maybe im already pregnant and thats why im so hormonal !!!! lol xx

 

[JJ Mum]

I think bedding being inportant to you, I would make a stand another day, and just sit down and have a non heated heart to heart, and clear the air. they do say it's never good to go to bed on an arguement anyway, just a bit more litterally for you! wink wink X

Good luck with OH X

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Ah bless....hope its all sorted out asap...but I know what you mean...dh says iim being a right crabby arse atm so lets hope thats two of us with BFP's and an attitude this month lol!! xxx

 

[Lilelephant]

Men hehe. I would talk to him and sort it out nothing worse than a festering arguement esp when your ttc

 

[clem]

How long do your arguments last? I fight with dh all the time and we regularly sleep back to back not talking to each other. But i dont worry about it as we always make up whilst asleep. And as we are supposed to bd every other day I just let it be the next night instead. I shouldnt let TTC stop you being normal together or you wont remember what that is and relationship will get worse for not working stuff out. I could be totally wrong but that's what I think x

 

[flopsybunny]

I think that is a good attitude to have Clem. It can be easy to lose yourself in TTC and forget you are a couple.

xx

 

[mushy1]

Thanks for all your coments girls..................... hubby came into the room last night just as i posted my last comment on here........ within secondsit was all forgotten about and we went to bed.................the bad news is we both fell asleep without baby dancing!!! But as Clem rightly pointed out its more important that we are happy and try not to let ttc take over................ if thats pos!!!!!!!! Love you all girls................... please make it a bumper month for BFP's !!! xx

 

[flopsybunny]

Glad you're sorted now!

xx

 

[FebMum2Be]

After me and OH have a silly argument I find it so hard to get close to him afterward lol I am so stubborn! Try to think happy thoughts (even if he's being a grumpy shite).. To clear the air I always think of funny or really nice times we've had together... And it cheers me up.. I don't be as annoyed, and then I can cheer him up (even if he's in the wrong) xx

 

[PinkPunch]

Thanks for all your coments girls..................... hubby came into the room last night just as i posted my last comment on here........ within secondsit was all forgotten about and we went to bed.................the bad news is we both fell asleep without baby dancing!!! But as Clem rightly pointed out its more important that we are happy and try not to let ttc take over................ if thats pos!!!!!!!! Love you all girls................... please make it a bumper month for BFP's !!! xx

aww i love that post!

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

Thanks for all your coments girls..................... hubby came into the room last night just as i posted my last comment on here........ within secondsit was all forgotten about and we went to bed.................the bad news is we both fell asleep without baby dancing!!! But as Clem rightly pointed out its more important that we are happy and try not to let ttc take over................ if thats pos!!!!!!!! Love you all girls................... please make it a bumper month for BFP's !!! xx

glad things got sorted hun, yeah it is really easy for TTc to take over your life and your relationship- i realised this not so long ago, and ive only been doing it for 5 months lol.
sorry you made me giggle, when you wrote that you feel asleep xx