no sex poor husband NOT

[babypinkie]

Ive gone off sex which i know is normal but try and tell my husband im hes calmed down since my first child but im now on my third and you would have thought he would have cottoned on he doesnt pester me but after a few day you know hes stressed but the only way to describe it is when my dog knows theres a bitch in season (awfull in i) it like walking on eggshells with him any tip or anybody in the same boat men

 

[whyslifesobig]

I have been the same this last few weeks but thats purely psychological I think, I am scared of loosing this baby like the others so I am really not in the mood. I have really had to make myself put out for him because I feel guilty. I am going to give him more oral to keep him feeling loved

 

[babypinkie]

i'm not worried about the baby i know he/she will be fine and i get horney days but i can honestly say its not top of my agenda when i go to bed i know it sound neglectfull but i can help it im so tired

 

[Vickyleigh]

Yep gone off it completely! OH get's stressed at times but he isn't the one that's pregnant but he doesn't pester me as much these day's. If I'm not in the mood then I'm not in the mood....

 

[madam bully]

Couldn't think of anything worse at the moment! Luckily OH is very understanding and hasn't pestered me once, I can only imagine what he is up to when I have gone to bed early

 

[kimmumof2]

i haven't gone off sex but my gp recommends we dont because i have had a previous miscarriage, so i cant. but OH is really understanding and there is other things you can do. xxxxxx

 

[Vickyleigh]

I can only imagine what he is up to when I have gone to bed early

Now you mention it my OH does stay up later then me these days.....I can only guess what he does.

 

[andreag]

I can only imagine what he is up to when I have gone to bed early

Now you mention it my OH does stay up later then me these days.....I can only guess what he does.

Ditto

 

[smurf]

I was advised not to have sex for the first 12 weeks too cos of a previous mc. Now hubby is estatic cos those 12 weeks are up but I've completely lost my sex drive I am hoping over the next few weeks it will show itself again poor hubby.

 

[Julie33]

Me and hubby both too scared at the moment, but I'm hoping normal service will resume after 12 week scan.

 

[Snuggle]

I have gone off sex too I feel more in the mood at weekends when I've had a lie in but I just feel too tired the majority of the time Lucky I have a very understanding hubby who is happy to have lots of cuddles

 

[Riley's Mommy]

ive gone off sex too. im not sure why really. i think the stress im under at the moment puts me off it.

 

[kimisgirl]

I know I said I was staying away from sex 'cos I was worried but I gave in and only lasted like 6 weeks or something, but I've only done it like once a week. I have noticed thou (warning TMI ) ... My 'O's' are kinda crap there's no 'big bang' ATM, more like a few coughs and splutters

Dh isn't really complaining thou 'cos he knows I'll be like a dog in heat come my 2nd Tri if I'm anything like I was last time

 

[Vickyleigh]

My OH can go pluck a duck for all I care all he thinks about is his own needs! Anyone would think he is the pregnant one!!!! Men can be sooo impossible

 

[marchmama]

well me and my husband last had sex on our wedding night back on the 1st oct, i do get snidy little remarks but i think he understands, and he always comes to bed after me so who knows what he gets up to but i dont mind as long as he is happy.

 

[tuck]

we found out preggie at 6wks and told no sex until after 12 weeks due to prev m/c, I then still had morning sickness so didnt even wanna think about it!, then had amnio test and told no sex for 20 days!!! I now feel 'ready' but hubby wont come near me that way! , says he cant cause thinks about the baby, told him it's ok, doc has told him it' ok but NO he wont. And yes my DH also comes to bed after me ,

we've tried once in 17 wks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but I know he still loves me