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Why is it when men get ill the whole bloody world ends but when it’s us we’re expected to just carry on.
So my other half has a cold. Has done since Friday and since then has refused or declined to hold the baby. He’s probably held him twice since Friday for less than 5 minutes and only when I’ve needed him too because he’s been crying and I’ve needed the toilet.
Hasn’t changed his nappy once, hasn’t fed him once since Friday. He’s also two months old and my oh hasn’t done a single night feed as he never wakes him when he cries.
He also said yesterday he was gonna take sleeping tablets during the day so he could sleep it off. I told him not to even think about it because there was too much we needed to get done. I ended up doing it all whilst he went and napped on the sofa, which meant since our little one was fussy that morning I got nothing to eat myself till 12:40, ended up eating it cold anyway as the baby woke up crying.
Then tea came round and he didn’t want to cook so said to order in. I’m sat there feeding the little on and he gives me the list of what he wants and says to order when I’m ready... like are you fucking kidding me you can’t even ring a order in? And then proceeds to sit outside for 20 mins having a fag. I’m then trying to order and deal with a baby that has colic....
Food arrives and it’s the same old story of my little one being upset and fussy in the evening due to his colic so once again I end up going eating cold food even though my other half finished his he didn’t bother to take the baby so I could eat something relatively warm.
Que this morning. He still feels ill. I’m feeling it now 8.15am and my little one has been awake since 4am not playing up he’s just awake and wanting someone with him, but I’m knackered he had already wake 3 times since 9pm also.
Told my other half who briefly wake up at 6am that I need to get a little more sleep, even just a hour or two and all he does was groan day he felt rough and has been asleep since then!!
It’s annoyed me and now I’m snappy as it’s like I understand you feel rough but it’s just a cold and when he goes back to work tomorrow I’m going to have to still do all he wouldn’t do this weekend feeling rough and ill myself, as well as the house work that he normally just leaves me to tidy up after.
I’ve also dealt with our pets this weekend cos he didn’t feel well and just spent most the day on and off sleeping on the sofa
So my other half has a cold. Has done since Friday and since then has refused or declined to hold the baby. He’s probably held him twice since Friday for less than 5 minutes and only when I’ve needed him too because he’s been crying and I’ve needed the toilet.
Hasn’t changed his nappy once, hasn’t fed him once since Friday. He’s also two months old and my oh hasn’t done a single night feed as he never wakes him when he cries.
He also said yesterday he was gonna take sleeping tablets during the day so he could sleep it off. I told him not to even think about it because there was too much we needed to get done. I ended up doing it all whilst he went and napped on the sofa, which meant since our little one was fussy that morning I got nothing to eat myself till 12:40, ended up eating it cold anyway as the baby woke up crying.
Then tea came round and he didn’t want to cook so said to order in. I’m sat there feeding the little on and he gives me the list of what he wants and says to order when I’m ready... like are you fucking kidding me you can’t even ring a order in? And then proceeds to sit outside for 20 mins having a fag. I’m then trying to order and deal with a baby that has colic....
Food arrives and it’s the same old story of my little one being upset and fussy in the evening due to his colic so once again I end up going eating cold food even though my other half finished his he didn’t bother to take the baby so I could eat something relatively warm.
Que this morning. He still feels ill. I’m feeling it now 8.15am and my little one has been awake since 4am not playing up he’s just awake and wanting someone with him, but I’m knackered he had already wake 3 times since 9pm also.
Told my other half who briefly wake up at 6am that I need to get a little more sleep, even just a hour or two and all he does was groan day he felt rough and has been asleep since then!!
It’s annoyed me and now I’m snappy as it’s like I understand you feel rough but it’s just a cold and when he goes back to work tomorrow I’m going to have to still do all he wouldn’t do this weekend feeling rough and ill myself, as well as the house work that he normally just leaves me to tidy up after.
I’ve also dealt with our pets this weekend cos he didn’t feel well and just spent most the day on and off sleeping on the sofa