My cousin is driving me insane! My pregnancy seems to be a game of Ive done better than you to her. She has had two kids, gorgeous little boys, and dont get me wrong, I love her to bits, but she is really beginning to get on my nerves and the way my moods are at the mo I am gonna snap!!
She called last night to see how I am which was nice of her. I said I am ok, getting swollen ankles but apart from that all is good and Bam Bam is kicking and punching like a good un and Mik properly felt it last night. She said Oh, well my fella could feel both of ours much earlier than this! Then as always in her conversations with me she goes on about the birth and how horrible it is, how unbelievably painful it is and that I will be screaming for an epidural. Now I am well aware that a baby with a head the size of a melon has to come out a hole the size of a 10p coin so I understand I am gonna be thinking I am dying, but for god sake how many times do I have to tell her I DO NOT want an epidural?!?!? Its my choice, and I really dont want one, but she keeps saying Oh trust me you will, you will be screaming for one.
I have pointed out to her that every woman who goes through childbirth is completely different, but she just keeps drumming in this advice about me like I dont have a brain to decide for myself, or I dont know what I want!
Then I said how happy and excited I was that we where going for a 3D/4D scan and she said Well we where going for one but they are over priced and not worth it Fair enough, but it was the tone she said it in, like Oh well youll learn. Now I think if I want to spend the money then I will spend it. I have saved a load for this baby, got compensation when I was 15/16 so decided to leave it in a saving account for my first child.
Oh god I sound like a right cow but I dont mean to. As I said I love her to bits and know she is there for me just like I am there for her, but I just dont like being spoken too like I am thick and naïve.
I have not shouted or got angry at her (always ranted off at DH after bless him for listening!) so she does not know I feel like this as I dont want to hurt her feelings, but if she carries on with her advice I am gonna flip one day I just know it.
Sorry to moan, please dont think I am a horrible person cos I am not, just need to rant or I will blow up I think.
She called last night to see how I am which was nice of her. I said I am ok, getting swollen ankles but apart from that all is good and Bam Bam is kicking and punching like a good un and Mik properly felt it last night. She said Oh, well my fella could feel both of ours much earlier than this! Then as always in her conversations with me she goes on about the birth and how horrible it is, how unbelievably painful it is and that I will be screaming for an epidural. Now I am well aware that a baby with a head the size of a melon has to come out a hole the size of a 10p coin so I understand I am gonna be thinking I am dying, but for god sake how many times do I have to tell her I DO NOT want an epidural?!?!? Its my choice, and I really dont want one, but she keeps saying Oh trust me you will, you will be screaming for one.
I have pointed out to her that every woman who goes through childbirth is completely different, but she just keeps drumming in this advice about me like I dont have a brain to decide for myself, or I dont know what I want!
Then I said how happy and excited I was that we where going for a 3D/4D scan and she said Well we where going for one but they are over priced and not worth it Fair enough, but it was the tone she said it in, like Oh well youll learn. Now I think if I want to spend the money then I will spend it. I have saved a load for this baby, got compensation when I was 15/16 so decided to leave it in a saving account for my first child.
Oh god I sound like a right cow but I dont mean to. As I said I love her to bits and know she is there for me just like I am there for her, but I just dont like being spoken too like I am thick and naïve.
I have not shouted or got angry at her (always ranted off at DH after bless him for listening!) so she does not know I feel like this as I dont want to hurt her feelings, but if she carries on with her advice I am gonna flip one day I just know it.
Sorry to moan, please dont think I am a horrible person cos I am not, just need to rant or I will blow up I think.