After reading kmac's post on another thread (general question about TTC- newbie here) I thought it was a good point and got me thinking. My question is, do you actually enjoy trying to conceive or does charting / monitoring every stage make you obessed and stress out too much? I've always had this idea of just being able to have sex without a condom anytime we like with the attitude of "it will happen when it happens". But after reading alot of TTC info, I fear I may become to obessed with charts / monitoring every movement, that I will be disappointed when it doesn't happen at first. Whats your thoughts on this?