Morning ladies, apologies in advance as I fear this may be long and a little confusing which is why I couldn't think of a suitable title but I have had all these thoughts going round my head for a few weeks now and need to get them down and if you have any advice or opinions I would really appreciate it.
Basically I am 33 but will be 34 next month, our daughter was born on the 13th October and is the absolute best thing in our lives. My husband and I met shortly before my 30th birthday and married 2 years later and conceived 3 months after our wedding.
I love being a mum so so much but keep worrying about my age with regards to having more children - I know there isn't anything I can do about it. We hope to start ttc a brother or sister for lo from December time when I will be nearly 35 but yesterday I was looking around the bc site and found articles about how it's harder to conceive when you get to 35 and a higher risk or miscarriage and problems. I am a born worrier and worried every day of my pregnancy so this has got me in a spin and I'm already worried about something going wrong and we're not even ttc yet!!
Also in an ideal world I would like 2 more children but will I be too old to have a 3rd?
If we ttc from December (I am breastfeeding at the moment so this depends when my periods start) lo will be around 2 years old when baby is born and I don't want to feel as though I am rushing her into not having all our time but I want them to be friends - what am I saying!!!!!
If you are still reading thank you very much!!
Tilly
Basically I am 33 but will be 34 next month, our daughter was born on the 13th October and is the absolute best thing in our lives. My husband and I met shortly before my 30th birthday and married 2 years later and conceived 3 months after our wedding.
I love being a mum so so much but keep worrying about my age with regards to having more children - I know there isn't anything I can do about it. We hope to start ttc a brother or sister for lo from December time when I will be nearly 35 but yesterday I was looking around the bc site and found articles about how it's harder to conceive when you get to 35 and a higher risk or miscarriage and problems. I am a born worrier and worried every day of my pregnancy so this has got me in a spin and I'm already worried about something going wrong and we're not even ttc yet!!
Also in an ideal world I would like 2 more children but will I be too old to have a 3rd?
If we ttc from December (I am breastfeeding at the moment so this depends when my periods start) lo will be around 2 years old when baby is born and I don't want to feel as though I am rushing her into not having all our time but I want them to be friends - what am I saying!!!!!
If you are still reading thank you very much!!
Tilly
