My Parents really don't understand

[Jackie10301988]

My parents both said to me to get an abortion or get out ..... I deffinatley am no getting an abortion but its just makes me angry sometimes that they would say that... Luckily theres a place a couple miles away that takes pregnant teens who need a place to stay till they can afford and apartment so I've been on top of that and I'm already applying for WIC next week

 

[Steelgoddess]

You need to make a choice for yourself no one else.

I don't think thats very nice what your parents said to you im so sorry how old are you if you don't mind me asking?

I wish you all the best for the future. And in time i think you should discuss what your parents said and tell them it has hurt you.

xxx

 

[Jackie10301988]

I'm going to be 19 at the end of this month

 

[sophie-jordan]

im sure your parents just want whats best for you but you have to do what you want not what any body else whats. your old enough to make up your own mind and stand by your own decisions. theres lots of people who have babys at your age and evn younger and everything worked out well.
hope you get everything sorted chick all the best
xxxx

 

[Melly+2]

Hun both my parents and my bf said they wanted me to not have my baby, but they will get used to the idea in time, my parents and bf love my daughter more then anything else under the sun and we couldnt be without her, shes so loved. Do waht YOU fell is right dont do anything you dont want to

 

[clairescunny55]

i totally agree, do what feels right for you. my parents werent happy when i fell preg with 1st at 17, but now they love her more than anything and are thrilled about becoming grandparents again very soon....

 

[budge]

you have to do what s right for you and the baby. if you think you can go it alone with a baby then go for it.

abortion is so final and at the end of the day you may regret it for the rest of your life.
There are worse things than having a baby at 19.
Your parents need a reality check. You could have come home and told hem you were doing drugs or worse still dying of cancer.

Get loads of advice and help and im sure you'll be fine.