my husband has lost interest in me

[winnie89]

Ever since I had harry he just doesn't want to be with me he doesn't want sex and he barely shows me affection before he used to kiss me all the time and we'd snuggle on the sofa or being rampant teenagers have tons of sex and now he's just not interested, I know my bodys had to change and it's not the most attractive (had c-section but on sw so slowly loosing tum but still have a slight overhang) even if we do have sex the light must be off and he doesn't touch me or kiss me, every time he pushes me away it chips my confidence and I just don't know what to do anymore it's really getting me down and I'm afraid I'll be back on anti depressants soon and that he's gonna leave me for someone else who is younger prettier and with a better body :'(

 

[VikkiR]

Oh crikey you poor thing. I think you need to have a chat with him sooner rather than later. Sometimes men's perception change once they have seen their loved ones give birth, some men find it quite traumatic to see you in so much pain. I doubt very much it's to do with how you look, he might be scared of hurting you, or he might not want you to get pregnant again which is why a fuse might have gone in his head. It could even be that hes secretly jealous that a little bundle of love now comes before him. It could be anything, please muster the courage to tell him how you feel and that you need now more than ever to feel loved and attractive to him. If you haven't the confidence to ask, write him a note and ask him to read it as you leave the room and give him time to digest what you've said. Remember your body has done something amazing and that alone makes you beautiful! Chin up hun, it might not be as bad as you think xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Olive]

^^ WSS. I know it's easier said than done, but the only thing you can do is tell him how you feel. Hope you're ok x


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[Kayelle]

Hun I could have written this last week! Then we started arguing because I thought he didn't love me and wanted a better looking model but i talked to him about it and he just explained how he was feeling unattractive too! Everyday I can feel things going back to how they were and I feel totally loved up again . Hope you can sort things out and feel better
x x x