Hunnie
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Had a MW appointment yesterday and everything is absolutely fine. Baby is measuring well and she was happy with blood pressure etc.
However all the way through this pregnancy Ive felt pushed to the side by all the MW's Ive seen and havent really received any help or understanding. (apart from one who has no retired!!! :'( )
Ive been having foof pains recently which make me want to double over and I cant walk until they have stopped. I described them to the MW and she just laughed at me and said oh they wont be anything to worry about. She gave me no insight into what may be causing them or her own opinion as to what they are
I asked another MW that I saw a general question about a particular test that gets done and asked why its carried out. She gave me no answer and told me I dont need to know the inside outs because thats what the professionals are for and thats why they've trained for so long.
Im dreading going to the hospital now. I want to go there feeling secure and that Im going to know whats happening to me but I can just picture it now that Ill be pushed to the corner and ignored. I dont even have a particular MW I always go and see and talk to and I dont even know the names of any of them?!
All the ladies on here have been far more helpful than any of the MWs have been!!!! I dont know what I would do without you all!!
However all the way through this pregnancy Ive felt pushed to the side by all the MW's Ive seen and havent really received any help or understanding. (apart from one who has no retired!!! :'( )
Ive been having foof pains recently which make me want to double over and I cant walk until they have stopped. I described them to the MW and she just laughed at me and said oh they wont be anything to worry about. She gave me no insight into what may be causing them or her own opinion as to what they are
I asked another MW that I saw a general question about a particular test that gets done and asked why its carried out. She gave me no answer and told me I dont need to know the inside outs because thats what the professionals are for and thats why they've trained for so long.
Im dreading going to the hospital now. I want to go there feeling secure and that Im going to know whats happening to me but I can just picture it now that Ill be pushed to the corner and ignored. I dont even have a particular MW I always go and see and talk to and I dont even know the names of any of them?!
All the ladies on here have been far more helpful than any of the MWs have been!!!! I dont know what I would do without you all!!
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