Must....not....stress!!

[Emma.b]

Well i've been having a really chilled cycle so far. Im 4-5dpo and its going really quick. I've enjoyed not line spotting, or remembering the c+, or stressing about having sex at the right time. In fact we only bd 3 times in my fertile window

Anyhow i almost allowed my mood to be spoiled. Just found out my sister in-law is having a girl, and i had a slight pang of childish dummy spitting! You know the one were you go 'arrrggghhhhh is so not f'ing fair, it should be me!!' And breath....

.....it only lasted a few mintues, didnt i do well

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[Iwant3]

aww you did very well!

well done on your chilled cycle - hope it ends in a bfp...

 

[jojo3972]

keep calm and have a cuppa hehe i love saying the keep calm thing my new one is keep calm and read fifty shades hmmmm hehe im or should i say i think i am around 5-6 dpo not quite sure if i oved or not had a second line but ive had a mmc 5 weeeks and had erpc procedure so my body is a bit messed up atm but we shall see and im realy calm tbh i dont think we bd enough only twice right before ov but we shall see i would be very surprised if i caught my very first cycle after mc but i would be so happy if i did and i know what u mean about the dummy spitting mines full blown kik the pram over tantrums as yesterday friend at school announced she is 9 weeks pregnant im happy for her but i cant help think well i shouild be almost 16 weeks its not fair why me why me and i just have to kik myself n say ur time will come and all will be fine and i have waffled on sorry lol baby dust to us both xxx

 

[Lara_M]

ahhh bless you, I get this quite a lot with my colleagues at work. I have six, yes SIX bumps walking around on my floor at the moment.

It will be your turn soon, there is a bean just waiting for you x x

 

[Becky1]

I'm with you on the dummy spitting, friend of mine told me yesterday she's pregnant, not planned either (a drunken session with her boyf when they were staying at my house!!! Double dummy spit). She's quite pleased, he on the other hand not! My OH had to listen to him saying how he wanted her to have a termination!!! He came home quite upset bless him

I had a bit of a sob and a 'life's just not fair' moment too.

x

 

[Becky1]

ahhh bless you, I get this quite a lot with my colleagues at work. I have six, yes SIX bumps walking around on my floor at the moment.

six bumps!! Isn't there an old wives tale about sitting in a pregnant persons chair?! Haha

 

[Emma.b]

ahhh bless you, I get this quite a lot with my colleagues at work. I have six, yes SIX bumps walking around on my floor at the moment.

six bumps!! Isn't there an old wives tale about sitting in a pregnant persons chair?! Haha

Hahaha i think i game of musical chairs is in order!?

 

[Lara_M]

ahhh bless you, I get this quite a lot with my colleagues at work. I have six, yes SIX bumps walking around on my floor at the moment.

six bumps!! Isn't there an old wives tale about sitting in a pregnant persons chair?! Haha

Hahaha i think i game of musical chairs is in order!?

Hmmm, yeah there are two preggers girls in my eyeline, about 4 metres away. And the others are always about. Its happened since we moved offices so hoping this office is lucky.

Hopefully come Monday, there will be 7 preggers people on my floor! We can but dream x

 

[Ladylaura23]

It must be going around at the moment!! My cousins just had baby girl today and there's loads of people at my work who are pregnant, one was due yesterday also with a girl!

Stay strong you never no this could be your month! xxx

 

[janinesboutiqu]

It must be going around at the moment!! My cousins just had baby girl today and there's loads of people at my work who are pregnant, one was due yesterday also with a girl!

Stay strong you never no this could be your month! xxx

Lets hope it starts "going round" around here hey! doesnt look like there have been too many BFPs on here this month yet grrr.. I'm thinking next month will our my lucky month xxx

 

[emmimoo]

Know how you feel, was chatting to a girl in my office bout 6/7 weeks ago that we have been TTC since last year and how frustrating we are finding it.
Last week she wonders round with her 12 week scan photo saying "only found out week before, totally unexpected" blah blah blah.
Icing on the cake was "Emma will be catching me up soon and we'll be having a bump-off!" Could have killed her!!

Well done you!!

 

[Ladylaura23]

Know how you feel, was chatting to a girl in my office bout 6/7 weeks ago that we have been TTC since last year and how frustrating we are finding it.
Last week she wonders round with her 12 week scan photo saying "only found out week before, totally unexpected" blah blah blah.
Icing on the cake was "Emma will be catching me up soon and we'll be having a bump-off!" Could have killed her!!

Well done you!!

Aww no! Some people just don't think before they speak! X

 

[Loz27]

OMG i so know how you feel. My cousin is about to drop and everyone is fussing around her and I am happy for her but soooo jealous! Then whenever anyone else says I have good news and mentions a baby or engagement I am terrible, its like being back at school! It must be us women lol.

How do you cope with it? Because I tend to just get moody and sulk making it a hell of a lot worse! xx

 

[Becky1]

I'm with you Loz, I can hide it to a point then mope round the house like a sulky teenager!!

 

[Blueflower]

Its so unfair when you've been trying for ages and other people get pregnant by accident! 2 of my colleagues have just announced they are expecting, one is with her 3rd child! The other one had IVF so I'm pleased for her, but when she said she was having twins I felt so envious! Several of my friends who are younger than me had babies when I was still single and now are on their 2nd ones!
I think the trick is to try to think "when I finally am pregnant, I would like to think that I was gracious about other people's good news and not bitter and twisted!" But its natural to be jealous and I think we can allow ourselves to be upset. I've started doing my pregnancy tests before I go in the shower so that when they are negative the water can wash the tears away before my husband sees me, sad!

 

[Emma.b]

Aww blueflower....this is the reason I no longer do pregnancy tests. I'd rather see af than a negative test! Lol

Well I'm 7dpo I feel no different, still in a good mood went out today to get a where's wally costume for a party tomorrow lol actually looking forward to meeting up with the gang. We have a party ever year about this time and its the only time we all get together in 1 place its brilliant too as most of us went to school together! I am going to be drinking, I've been in 2 minds about this, but I've decided I can't put my life on hold for what ifs. Miss out on all those fun drinking games...not a chance! Lol

How is Every1 else feeling? X x

 

[crazycatlady]

Myself and 2 colleagues are ttc. If i ever get bfp will tell them away from everyone. And will be aware of how they might feel as that's what i would want them to do for me.

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