Mums of 3 or more.

[kayzee]

its definately harder going from two to three -

Thank god for that!!!! I have been thinking ive gone mad and had moments of sheer panic when i dont think im looking after her properly Maybe its baby blues just a bit late or the fact that i have a 13 year gap, ive got 2 boys of 14 and 13 anyone want to pm me with information on dealing with 3 as im a single mum too,
Also i know what you mean about the after pains i had them for just over a week and when i was breastfeeding i was in absolute agony, not nice!! xxxx

 

[budge]

i wanted my gas and air with my after pains after Rachael!

 

[kayzee]

oh dear poor budge, i know exactly what you mean i thort they would only last a few days not for nearly a fortnight xxxx

 

[Dee1985]

I'd love another baby too, but DH had vasectomy in September. I'm not saying anything to him though - we're not reallly being careful as we're suppose to (he could still produce active sperm for up to a year).... so I'll be happy to have one more chance.

Emilia xx

My mum got pregnant 9 years after my dads vasectomy

 

[emilia]

I'd love another baby too, but DH had vasectomy in September. I'm not saying anything to him though - we're not reallly being careful as we're suppose to (he could still produce active sperm for up to a year).... so I'll be happy to have one more chance.

Emilia xx

My mum got pregnant 9 years after my dads vasectomy

Oh Yikes.....

Emilia xx

 

[Sassyminx]

its definately harder going from two to three -

nooooooooo dont say that ive got 2, aged 6 and 4 and im expecting number 3 in 6wks, but with them being a bit older im HOPING its not as hard as it would be if they were all under 6

 

[kellie80]

I found a 5 year age gap was really good. She does most things for herself and is old enough to help me out. Dreading having a 13 months age gap, i really am. The only bad thing i would say about having a bigger age gap is you get used to having your freedom back, you can stay out late and don't have be back for bedtime and have all day free while they are in school. God I miss that!

 

[Dee1985]

lellie i wouldnt worry to much about the 13month age gap. same as Dior and Harley its pretty easy. but my brother is 5 and he is with me al the time. i find him and Dior a hand full where as Dior and Harley are a doddle.

 

[kellie80]

Thanks Dionne! I hope i can cope as well as you

 

[budge]

dionne seems to have a lot of in put i this thread!

me thinks there are the sounds of tiny feel in dionnes head at the moment

come on dionne! are you bare back baby dancing? ADMIT it

 

[Dee1985]

NOOOOO STOP IT
my heart is saying YES my head is saying NO!
kris is saying. WHAT EVER I WANT!

 

[kayzee]

i want another one and i got 3 already, please someone tell me im not insane I think its because there is 13 years between tia and lee and she wont have another sibling near her own age, and to think i thought my family was complete xxxx

 

[budge]

have another kayzee! one more makes no difference at all.

 

[kayzee]

oh budge i really do want another, i been like it since the day after i came out of hospital, i darent say anything in case the men in white coats came for me lol if i do have another its deffo a home birth for me xxxx

 

[budge]

well if its men in white coats for you on your fourth what about me wanting a fifth!

i only want another so my mum can't say to me ''oh rachael how do you think i went on with 5!!!!'' it really pisses me of when she says that

 

[Freya]

Hey you are nearly talking me into this!! I would have a smaller age gap this time but would not ttc until end of summer so that son is 2 when have next one.