Mummys With LOs Close In Age

[Wobbles]

Should say my 'work' spells work round that morning (as an example)! I refresh and do quick things when im waiting for the kettle, toaster, bottle, tidying kicthen after brekkie, taking dirty naps outside the back etc usually fart ass stuff. Actually most times its easier to refresh FB than work! SOMETIMES rarely theres 'good mornings' I get to sit in livingroom with the laptop and the girls enjoy playing together. Like I say rare HA!

 

[yummymum]

It will get easier hun well at least for awhile until the dreaded teens then if i was you i would leave home till its past

 

[Mamafy]

I think that's all very real hun It's hard work but I look at what it was 2 years ago (so nearly where you are now ) and this is a breeze in comparison, honestly

Joe has settled so much, Katie although can scream and fight; it's certainly better having the 2 of them at this age as oppsed to baby/toddler

And don't feel crap about nursery, you work FGS

Joe is in pre-school from 9-11.30 and its cr@p School starts in September for Joe from 9-2 so

 

[Wobbles]

I assume you take lily with you to take Ethan in a snowsuit and her pjs underneath? Monday and Wednesday I took both to drop Caitlin off and I tell you I had a right fight with it!

I hate the double - get that out the door past the icandy ARGH to which I had a fight with the front swinging gate whist I was at it so Wednesday I did Caitlin walking Megan in icandy ARGH again but yer under that cosytoes she was snowsuit and PJs I felt so mean LOL!

We're also at that one wakes the other does esspecially if Megan wakes Caitlin now wakes shouting "geggy geggy" !!

My girls I am so proud of I didn't think I'd ever have one nevermind the shock of Megan and her sticking around in my tummy but despite all my past I too think I wish there was a bigger gap but also feel privilaged. Awkward!

 

[Wobbles]

It will get easier hun well at least for awhile until the dreaded teens then if i was you i would leave home till its past

You know what I have no doubt the teen life will be fun but I think I could handle that due to my own upbringing and being pretty street wise to all and everything that someone could cross. Seen too much in my life far more than I should have for a child but it made me stronger I think it will help in the future. x

 

[yummymum]

yeah , would be crazy to dress her before breakfast not only wouldnt i have time but shes no messy at eating

 

[Wobbles]

Thanks Mamafy x People tell me when Megan that lil bit older will help so I can only hope. Its not too far away - feel like Im wishing her to grow up which is awful.

We're keeping Caitlin & Megan in private nursery until primary school days I can't do that half day lark lol!

 

[yummymum]

It will get easier hun well at least for awhile until the dreaded teens then if i was you i would leave home till its past

You know what I have no doubt the teen life will be fun but I think I could handle that due to my own upbringing and being pretty street wise to all and everything that someone could cross. Seen too much in my life far more than I should have for a child but it made me stronger I think it will help in the future. x

Yeah I think with being in care and moving around the way I did as well as having Jake at 14 he doesnt stand a chance I get stress off him but its mainly lip he doesnt drink on street corners or anything cos i allow him 1 on a friday night in the house been doing that 6m ish and now he isnt even that botherd got 4 bottles of the pear cider i got at christmas left out of a pack of 8

 

[Wobbles]

Were you 14 - wow! My Dad was same age and Mother a year older.

I won't say too much about my life lol had no idea you were tangled in the care system though x

 

[yummymum]

Just a little tangled was in care at 8months then my real mum won me bk then at 4ish i was takin into care both brothers adopted nobody wanted me i was a problem child ( i wasnt i just knew my own mind ) so approx 16 different foster carers later i left at 16 and never looked bk ...at 18 when my sw left i had never been so happy X

 

[Wobbles]

You ever found contact with your 'parents'? S'ok if its too raw and sensitive just tell me to mind my own x

 

[yummymum]

You ever found contact with your 'parents'? S'ok if its too raw and sensitive just tell me to mind my own x

My mum is married to my abuser before moving here i lived round the corner from them , I reported them to the police and ss for looking after there neighboughs children also told the nieghboughs that they had a peado looking after there children ...wouldnt ever get myself involved

My Dad I have never met traced when i was 18 and his bro said he had his own life now and to stay out of it . a few months ago on fb my real cousin said my dad had been intouch and wants to see me no presure ...ive managed 29 yrs without him so dont really need him now ..

sorry for high jacking the thread

 

[Wobbles]

Not hijacking

Not easy situations - Must have took strenght to say no. You get over the curious stage? He shouldn't have turned you away should he - eejit!

 

[yummymum]

You see i questioned maybe he didnt ..maybe his brother didnt tell him that i had been intouch ...i now know he as lived in same house 17yrs which would of been round corner from me when i lived in wheatley I just tbh havent got the strength to meet him and find out he is no better then my mum ive managed this long without him , i dont need him , so why rake up the past ..god that sounds harsh but i know what i mean x

 

[yummymum]

Also she sent me a pic and he is scary

 

[Wobbles]

OMG Id have ran a mile too - nice intro! I know judging the looks isn't good but jee yer see your point! FFs smile its your daughter

No harm in trying if you were to ever give it a shot he doesn't have to be your 'Dad' and he doesn't have to be disappointing? x

 

[Mamafy]

Serina, he is scarey looking

 

[yummymum]

Hope i dont look that scarey

 

[Mamafy]

You look nothing like him