Mmc

[Rach beattie]

Thanks melly ur support means a lot I was just so frustrated tonight but I no it will pass. I think ur right altho I'm not getting any pain I think it might be irritating it so we will see tomoro if there is any bleeding. How do u know all these facts about pregnancy haha? Funny my pains in my back when I miscarried were all in the right side. U have done all u can do this time so fingers crossed for a sticky bean. O believe me u Will be the first person to no probs even before oh haha x

 

[Melly41]

I know as im 42 and done way too much reading! You will have your ups and downs so tonight is a down...things will look up tom. Youre right..we will know before OH for sure! Keep positive it will happen....this week! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Thanks melly u really keep my chin up don't know what I would have done without u this past week x

 

[Melly41]

Ditto hun ditto x

 

[Melly41]

Hi rach...how are you today? Still bleeding or has it settled? Im (i think) am 1dpo. Already been goggling symptoms again not that ive had any! Going to have to try and keep myself busy for next 2 weeks or im going to drive myself insane! Atleast were away thurs pm for week then have visitors as soon as we arrive home who will be staying with us for 2 nights! Just hope i csn forget about it whilst on holiday!

 

[Rach beattie]

Hi melly isn't that exciting already?! I am better today thanks. Still bleeding slightly hothouse in the mornings and I behaved last night so doesn't seem to be to do with that. Hoping it will clear by the weekend but I guess I have to wait and see. Hopefully the week will fly in with u being away and u won't notice the time. It will be testing time again before u know it! X

 

[Melly41]

Or not if af arrives on cue! Glad you feel ok. Bleedimg will settle this week im sure x

 

[Rach beattie]

Hi melly how r u? Done a test today and nearly negative but not quite my levels seem to be taking ages to come down even though I'm hardly bleeding. I guess u can't get pregnant while the hormones are still in ur body? I'll attach a wee pic for u x

 

[Melly41]

Couldnt find your picture rach...are you 9 days post mva? Mm bleeding stopped day 10 and neg hpt at day 12 then positive opk day 14 so you might find by the wkd you get neg....then you need to start doing opks so you dont miss ovulation as could happen straight away....youre almost there!

Nothing to report here...busy day and been taxi-ing kids to various clubs. My DD is in the school footie team. Shes the only girl and they played 1st match at 4pm today and won 6-3...so she is very excited! Off on hols tom but will be checking regularly throughout the days to get updates from you. Cant believe how close you are. Are you testing with 10miu/ml?

P.s you wint ovulate until hcg below 10 really so unlikely you could get pregnant until you get that neg hpt xx

 

[Rach beattie]

Aww that's great melly I'm sure she is all delighted. A break will be great for u all. No I'm still testing with 25 that's y I get so annoyed. Mva was a week yesterday so I no it's early days it's just the fact it's still slightly above 25 that is panicking me x

 

[Melly41]

Mine was above 25miu until day 10 then got neg 25miu day 11 but positive 10miu.it then took 2 days for it to fall below 10. The positive thing is youre not really bleeding now so a neg hp is imminent...hang in there...by the wkd i reckon it will be neg. Cant wait for hols...but very disorganised as not packed and we are yet to book it as been waiting to see if weather improves...likely to be going somewhere entirely different! Still also have to do a food shop and im working till lunchtime tom! It'll get done...going to worry about it tom as too tired now so sat with my feet up!

When did you do the test...was it today? Good feeling that it will turn neg by wkd x

 

[Rach beattie]

Thanks melly that gives me some hope. I do not know what is wrong with me the past two days I just feel so down and like it isn't going to happen. Just wallowing lol. U will get it all done before u go don't worry. I'm so jealous I would love a few days away so make sure u relax! Yes it was Themis afternoon that I tested. Debating buying a different test this weekend to see if it changes lol x

 

[Melly41]

I felt down at this point too as i just wanted to stop bleeding and get a neg test and you were great at grounding me and putting things into perspective and highlighting to me that it will happen, and soon! Just like it will for you. Dont waste money on expensive tests..save those for when you are testing for your

 

[Rach beattie]

This is my test from today

 

[Melly41]

Still cant see it...it looks like its not attached??

 

[Rach beattie]

X

 

[Rach beattie]

I no ur right I need to give myself a shake x

 

[Melly41]

Thats really faint. I can hardly see it and had to enlarge photo...its imminent hun it really is xx

 

[Rach beattie]

I really don't know what I would do without u to vent to so thank u so much lol. I no I thought that too, I'm getting better and testing every other day now so hopefully next time (Friday) it will be negative x

 

[Melly41]

You dont have to thank me mate! Youve been there for me too and i really dont know what i would have done without having you to chat to. My hubby, even though i love him dearly, wants to not think about mc and ttc too much and i think he finds it easier to forget whats happened and what im going through with ttc so you being there has been invaluable!

Ive been thinking friday/saturday for you all week..fingers crossed. Will be checking whilst im away x