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[Rach beattie]

I think that's the hard bit of trying before af u just don't have a clue when it will happen. I am just going to do it every other day until my period comes haha x

 

[Melly41]

Good plan! Lets hope your af doesnt show.....its hard as we wont know when it is due and whether to take a hpt...dont want to take one until im sure im late but how we going to know? As af can take seversl weeks to show! If this is the case when do we test? X

 

[Rach beattie]

My plan is not to test u til end of November as I would be a good few weeks along by then and it will save me worrying until 12 weeks altho I no that would never happen haha x

 

[Melly41]

If you hold out that long i will be seriously impressed....but in the nicest way....dream on hun! Youll defo have the urge to poas before then haha! I hope that we do get quite a few weeks without af (40 weeks give or take a few days to be precise!)

 

[Rach beattie]

Hahaha ur right I'll be testing at the end of October let's be serious! My only issue is I haven't had a period since I was 15 so I have no idea how long my cycle is x

 

[Melly41]

Wow! Thats bizzarre! You obviously ovulate though! Do they know why you dont have periods? Must be nice to ovulate and have no af! Do you get any pms symptoms??

 

[Rach beattie]

I didn't word that right sorry lol. I have been on the pill since I was 15 so it's considered a withdrawal bleed obviously every three weeks. I haven't had a proper period since then as when we tried last year it never came u til four months later and then I went back on the pill as I couldn't cope with the not knowing. So I have no idea how long my proper cycle is x

 

[Melly41]

Doh!! Of course....sorry! Its been years since i was on the pill! Lets hope you wont have to worry about your af for a long time! X

 

[Rach beattie]

How r u tonight? Did u opks this evening at all x

 

[Melly41]

Evening! Just got back from airport. No opks tonight...just one at 6pm ehich was so faint it was non existent! How about you? Any temptation to poas? X

 

[Rach beattie]

I went a whole day yesterday without testing I am very proud of myself haha! Debating whether to this morning or wait until tomoro. I'm sure ur glad he is home. I'm still bleeding slightly but it only seems to be in the morning when I first get up. When do u think u will be on? Going by cd I'm cd10 today but there is no chance of me ovulating while I'm bleeding x

 

[Melly41]

No idea when af will arrive. Just been talking about that. Could be 2 weeks but might be 4. Weve decided to dtd every 2-3 days until get peak fertility.

Your bleeding will subside soon. Mine felt it was never going to end esp after clots but then it suddenly stopped. I would have been cd12 i think.

I have comd around to idea that my af will arrive and that we might have better luck next cycle!

Dtd later today!! so we will just have to wait and see! Bored of the waiting now and im not even in the tww!! X

 

[Rach beattie]

I think that is the hardest part of this cycle having no idea when u will be actually due. I'm the same I know it won't happen before af arrives but that's ok. At least that way we will know exact due date so every cloud. I hope so I'm getting fed up with this bleeding business I have no patience for it lol. We dtd again last night so I am def resting tonight to see if it clears haha x

 

[Melly41]

Yes roll on af! At least we will know where we are.....didnt think id be wishing for af anytime soon!

 

[Rach beattie]

Just keep feeling positive and it will happen

 

[Melly41]

I suppose. Just hard trying to stay positive! I know i will feel gutted when i get my first bfn! Going to try and keep myself busy over next few days till our week away! Weather not looking great for isle of skye so might have to change our plans....thinking john o groats!! Now thats pure escapism!! Haha! X

 

[Rach beattie]

This morning's test very nearly negative. That's the best way to keep yourself distracted. We r so busy between now and Christmas with birthdays, hen parties and two weddings so I am hoping the distraction makes me not focus on ttc but I doubt it. I don't no what that is John o groats? X

 

[Melly41]

Wow that is almost negative! Not long! John o groats is tge very top of scotland....very remote! Theres the famous lands end to john o groats 900 mile walk....wont be doing that despite being in need of distraction!

 

[Rach beattie]

Sounds lovely u will have a great time relaxing x

 

[Melly41]

So ive done an opk just niw and its almost positive so LH surge defo on the way.going to dtd later for sure! Only got flashing smiley on cb this morning so hoping will peak to. Have attached a photo for you x



Yeaterday opk was not there at all! Fingers crossed im about to ovulate. How are things with you today? Has bleeding settled? X