Mmc

[Rach beattie]

Merry Christmas melly hope u have a fab day and that Christmas Eve brought u some luck x

 

[Melly41]

Thanks rach. Merry xmas to you to! I hope there is a bfp amongst your presies x

 

[Rach beattie]

BOobs were on fire this morning but no tests left haha I guess we will see what the new year brings. Hope u r ok x

 

[Melly41]

Do your boobs normally feel like this pre af? Youll have to hanf on till shops are open foe you to buy another test! X

 

[Melly41]

Morning. Hope you had a lovely xmas? Ive had a horrendous sore throat/blocked nose for last 2 nights which has kept me up overnight! Had a temperature yesterday too but still had a good day. Just dosed myself you with paracetomol! Great timing! There has been a few more bfps this week....wonder if it will be your turn next? How are you today?

 

[Rach beattie]

Morning melly sorry u haven’t been feeling well there is nothing worse. We had a great family Christmas and my house is now like a bomb has hit it haha. I seen that on the other thread it’s great. I haven’t even thought of testing or got a test since last Friday. Very bloated the past two days so hopefully af isn’t far away altho no other signs of her. R u 2dpo now? X

 

[Melly41]

You so need to get a test! If its negative, go and get your bloods done! Im 2dpo today. Not holding out much hope as only dtd cd9 and cd11 as been unwell....typical x

 

[Melly41]

Morning rach....just checking how you are as youve been a bit quiet? Any signs yet? Im 3dpo and have horrendous cold but fine other than that x

 

[Rach beattie]

Hi melly I’m good have just been so wrecked with Xmas and the wedding that I have been sleeping loads haha. I see there has been more bfps again hopefully they keep coming and u get one next week! Still no sign of af for me I might just have to test each week to rule it out until af arrives so I will grab one later x

 

[Melly41]

Its so frustrating for you. Hope you feel better rested now...youve had a lot on. We are braving the sales but stopped for pizza to re-energise! X

 

[Rach beattie]

I took a test and another bfn which I knew was coming as I have no symptoms but it still hurt. This happened to me last year when I came off the pill and it took 3 months to have one period. Part of thinks about going on the pill for one month to see what happens as I got pregnant in the summer coming straight of it but I no it’s a risky game. Just so fed up with this now x

 

[Melly41]

Maybe you should go to doctors to see what they suggest? Coming off pill can cause havoc with cycles too. You had period since mmc havent you? Maybe it will take a few months to be back to normal. Mine were cd33, cd23 and cd28 since mmc so not exactly regular. GP might do your bloods too to check hcg incase not being picked up on hpt? So annoying for you. Hope they settle soon x

 

[Rach beattie]

Thanks melly just so peed off today lol I was doing well and I’m willing to go with the flow but I feel like I’m not even getting a chance to try. I’ve had one 43 days after my op and I’m now on cd40 of this cycle. Feel like I am putting my life on hold for no reason so have decided to start running etc again to try and get some normality back instead of waiting to get pregnant. Hope u r enjoying shopping x

 

[Melly41]

I reckon best thing to do is to not get too caught up with ttc. Get an idea of when your fertile window is and dtd then but do everything else like running etc as you would do normally. I caught the month i wasnt ttc! It might be that youll have a couple of longer cycles before you get back to normal.i hope its soon for you x

 

[Rach beattie]

I guess ur right I just kept thinking it will happen soon so put everything else on hold. Please get a bfp next week lol I need something to keep me going haha x

 

[Melly41]

Somehow i just done think its going to happen. I naivrly thought i would catch quickly as supposed to be more fertile! I totally get why youre fed up! I just wish the whole ttc malarky was easier!! Its just so crap for you that youre not sure whats going on! I suppose i should be thsnkful that im having periods at least! Im sure youll turn the corner soon.x

 

[Rach beattie]

I guess we both had that false hope . Thanks melly for listening to me rant just got so fed up today. Looking hopefully I get my period at the weekend or next week which would be the same gap as after mc x

 

[Melly41]

You rant away rach. I dont know how i would have got through last few weeks without ranting to you! Youll feel better about things soon. I hope your af arrives by the wkd. At least youll know where you are then....hopefully! X

 

[Rach beattie]

The whole thing just sucks lol. Cervix has been high and soft for weeks now and I had a lot of creamy cm at the weekend altho still have not had any stretchy cm at all. I’m just glad to have u to rant to as my dh is begginning to think I’m mad lol x

 

[Melly41]

Is there no way you could be pregnant? High and soft cervix is usually a good sign. If af imminent, your cervix would be lower and firmer. X