Mmc

[Rach beattie]

I'm the same I never even usually have anything overnight but at least it's here. I'm so excited to start ttc now although have to keep telling myself it could take months x

 

[Melly41]

Thats dawned on me this time! I naively thought id be more fertile after mc and conceive within a couple of cycles! Lets hope we have our bfp before xmas x

 

[Rach beattie]

I was the same melly thought I would catch before first af but hey ho we just keep going and hope we both get an extra special Christmas present x

 

[Melly41]

Would be lovely christmas presie! According to my dates i will have two cycles of ttc before xmas. Just hope we both get lucky x

 

[Rach beattie]

That's right ur cycles are shorter that's lucky �� X

 

[Melly41]

In some ways yes but it also means my leutal phase is shorter and therefore less chances if conceiving. Needs to be 12 days really and i think mine are 11/12 days so very borderline! But im staying positive and hopeful. Will you not have 2 cyckes before xmas? How long are they usually or is that tricky to know as you were on the pill before?

 

[Rach beattie]

It's tricky for me to no but when I test four weeks from last period always negative but week later positive that's what happens with both my pregnancies. That's makes me think I'm slightly longer than 28 days? Meaning only one cycle before Xmas x

 

[Melly41]

Lets hope its the one! X

 

[Rach beattie]

How r u today melly x

 

[Melly41]

I feel quite positive today, despite today being the day i reached the 20 week mark. How are you feeling about it....it wouls have been quite a turning point with 20 wk scan etc.but im trying to stay positive this month as felt more negative last cycle and im sure that doesnt help. Af pretty much finished so not long now till fertile window! How are you feeling today?

 

[Rach beattie]

That's great u r feeling so positive melly it will really help. I am still very bright red blood but I'm just so grateful it's here and we can ttc x

 

[Melly41]

You sound positive too rach. Lets hope it pays off! I saw so many pregnant women yesterday but it felt ok for the first time in weeks. Im now thinking, if it happens that would be amazing, but if doesnt then i feel very lucky to have our beautiful, amazing wee monkeys. Hopefully youll be ttc in the next week or so X

 

[Rach beattie]

I am positive things are really looking up for us ATM . What day do u start using opks on? Glad u r feeling this way melly I really think it will help and hopefully we both get our rainbows x

 

[Melly41]

Thanks rach. I will start using opks cd10 just because i ovulate around cd12....but cb fertility monitor needs to be done from cd8. Im cd4 now so not long....wont be long before you are too....when will you start? X

 

[Rach beattie]

I've never used them properly so I don't no lol maybe day 10? X

 

[Melly41]

Perhaps try once a day from cd10 then when they look like they are getting darker, start doing them twice a day (same times each day). Not before midday and make sure uou dont drink or wee for 3-4 hours. You might have to do them at work! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Sounds like a plan, I'll be opking from Monday then. Hope af has disappeared for u x

 

[Melly41]

Yes af gone away now.....hopefully for a long holiday! How about you....?

 

[Rach beattie]

Fingers crossed. Mine isn't much lighter so hoping it will finish tomoro dh is away this week so plenty to make up for at the weekend hsha x

 

[Melly41]

Thats rather considerate of the witch! She usually times it perfectly for me like the day of returning back to work after a holiday or just in time for the weekend! Lwts hope we are both in a good position to dtd over the weekend....altho reckon im not cd10 till sunday so might need to hold fire till then otherwise my DH will have a long week ahead! Haha! X