Mmc

[Melly41]

Think youre being very sensible...wish i could be. I bet i start testing ridiculously early! Those cramps sounded like ovulation so maybe start counting the day after as 1dpo. Just wondering if i need to dtd again tonight....not sure either of us has the stamina but on the ttc thread women who got their bfp's dtd every day for most of the month! Just worried in case i dont ovulate till tom as only got lh surge sunday??

 

[Rach beattie]

If your up for it it go for it if not don't put pressure on yourself as I think that takes over. I try for every other day for the month and man is that hard when I start work at 7:30 every morning haha x

 

[Melly41]

I will see how we both feel later...its so hard...
I guess if it happens it happens. Every other day is very impressive. I'll be done now for a whole week! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Haha that will slow down soon enough I will say if we don't catch soon as it's hard going x

 

[Melly41]

If you dont catch this time, try the egg meets sperm plan. Has good results for women that have had a mc or are over 40 so hoping i will benefit from it! Time will tell. We are both doing what we can so lets hope we both catch....would be fab if we got bfp's together x

 

[Rach beattie]

I no I would love that but either way I will be so happy for u as I know how much it means to u. Yes think I will try that when af eventually arrives. Five weeks today was my mva so scary x

 

[Melly41]

I'd be so happy for you too....it would be lovely for ruby to have a little sibling...at least mine have each other! Fingers crossed its our month rach and we get to go on the next part of the journey together x

 

[Rach beattie]

Hopefully although tonight feels like I'm getting the cold so not much dtd lol x

 

[Rach beattie]

I have my names and all picked for either so I better get one at some point haha x

 

[Melly41]

Thats super organised! Im sure youll get to use them in a few months time..havent allowed myself to think of names....i hadnt had any in mind when i was pg. We didnt decide my daughters until the day she was born....she looked like a Rosie so it was settled! Hope your cold doesnt get any worse! You might need to tell OH to do all the work haha! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Still no af or any sign of her x

 

[Melly41]

So frustrating. Maybe doing a hpt to rule pg out might be helpful...if you were hcg would defo be detected by now so if neg at least you know af will defo be here at some point soon x

 

[Rach beattie]

Negative hpt today. Just feel so fed up today it's not fair god knows when she will turn up x

 

[Melly41]

Sorry rach....she will show altho if youve just ovulated maybe youre in for a bit of a wait.you need to stay positive and remember there is a better chance youll get pg soon having had mc...its crap but at least you can be fairly certain that youve ovulated now. Ive still got at least 10 days before i can think about taking a test! And thats only if af doesnt show her ugly head in the meantime! X

 

[Rach beattie]

Thanks melly was just having a crappy day. Hopefully she won't be too far away altho still no sign at all. Have the cold pretty bad so dtd is off the table ATM lol. How many dpo r u now x

 

[Melly41]

Ive had some pretty crap days too recently feeling negative about it all so it will pass. It probably doesnt help you have a horrible cold. I tend to get colds easier when af due! Im 3dpo today...no signs but i guess its way too early! Hope you get some idea soon as to whether af will show or whether that could have been ovulation few days ago. X

 

[Rach beattie]

It will not be long until u can test again! Hopefully this is your month x

 

[Melly41]

Hopefully both of our months x

 

[Rach beattie]

We are in limbo ATM about whether to book a summer holiday for next June. Oh thinks we should focus on saving and ttc I think we can't put our lives on hold in the hope we get pregnant. Y is all this so stressful lol x

 

[Melly41]

Could you book an earlier holiday maybe may? If you catch this month prob be due early aug so youd still be ok to fly! I agree you cant put lives on hold and woukd be nice to have something to look forward to. We tend to book flights nearer the time and then get apartment separately....loads cheaper! If you waited till youve done next hpt...if its neg and you have to wait till next cycle then it will be due sept so going away in june will be fine. Its so hard being in limbo....i remember think i just want af to arrive now so i know where i am....have you had any bleeding since the bleeding from mva stopped? Hope youre ok...you sound a bit fed up? Sending you a hug x