Miss you dad

[kitty86]

I haven't seen my dad since my grandad died in 2000. He chose not to speak to me and abandon me twice. He hasnt' seen my daughter EVER and I dont think he knows I am pregnant again.

Even after all this I still miss you so much. I still love you so much.

 

[budge]

write him a letter.

 

[Nic'n'Keeley]

 

[Babylicious]

I know how you feel my Dad doesn't speak to me, and he didn't bother to send his grandaughter a birthday card.

 

[kitty86]

I thought about wrighting a letter but Im worried his wife will open it and distroy it before he see's it. She is that type of person.

Im his past there his future, just something I have to come to terms with.

Its ok for these dads to walk out on there babies but do they really know what a mess and heartache they leave behind.

I live in hope that one day he comes to his senses.

 

[libs]

Can I use your thread to have a moan too - sorry kitty.

I wish I had never got in touch with my biological father. I was raised by my adopted dad and mum. When I was 16 we argued constantly and I ran away from home. (combination of my teenage years and their lack of parenting skills for teenagers all sorted now ) I decided to trace my father who I had never met. I didn't like him v much when I first met him but felt guilty about appearing then disappearing. Loved his wife tho - but she died a few years back suddenly and then he just seemed to rely on me for ages (he has a son too ) and just drained me, but didn't bother sending me birthday cards, anything on my wedding day etc. I hated the way he treated his son.
Then he decided to move abroad and marry someone much younger within a year of his wife dying - not the age that was a problem (I have a 22 year gap in my marriage) but he only met the girl three times Now he's divorced, lost most of his money and is ill, and still abroad. My sil is trying to convince him to come back and I really really don't want him to He's never interested in my child or anyone else for that matter - when his marriage was breaking up he kept telling me that mine wasn't right and I should leave DH I really really don't want anything to do with him at all, but I feel too guilty to make that final cut.

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Im not in contact with my dad and can honestly say i idnt miss him.

 

[Babylicious]

My sister was the cause of all the cr4p that went on between me and Dad, she totally hates me (no reason too!, she always says that if Mum didn't have me then she would have been alive) - She died of a smoking related illness so it wasn't my fault. Families eh? Who'd have em

 

[trixipaws]

 

[leckershell]

As soon as my dad found out about my little one he wrote a really nasty text back, basically saying how disappointed he is in me, that I have a 'spineless' boyfriend etc etc how life is going to be more difficult for me.. basically that he doesn't want to know and I'm a big loser to the family for not having been to University and now having a baby when I only have a job that pays pretty average.

So annoying.

His girlfriend is sound though, and has always been interested in knowing about the baby, but the other day had a go at me for not involving my dad or getting in touch with him about the baby.. well SORRY, but if he had sent anyone a text like that and then basically disowned them, well wouldn't they do the same thing?!

Argh.