when troy (careys dad) was being a pain in the arse i could always go to matthew and he was there for me and carey. since me and troy have split up me and matt have got closer hes asked if i wanna be more than mates though.. i know hes great to me and hes soo good with carey, my family love him but i dont know whether its going to confuse carey or not, troy does see him on a saturday. would you say its better getting him used to having another man thats not his dad around and still seeing his dad on a saturday or what? i know i cant stop him from seeing troy ive not had much time for my friends since carey was born so having matt around is brilliant for me i dont wanna lose him. what do you suggest?