Miscarriage & feeling low..

[BeckyBoo6747]

I was so so happy after getting my first BFP at Christmas , and unfortunately yesterday I misscarried. I was spotting brown for several days & then it turned into very painful cramps, clots & heavy bleeding.
We are both devastated & upset , but it just wasn’t the right time & hopefully in a few months we can try again. I just wanted to know if anyone else has recently gone through this & if they have gone on to get a BFP afterwards.
It’s just so raw still & even though it was very early on in pregnancy it’s awful for any woman to have to go through.

 

[xMillie]

So sorry to read this. Sending lots of hugs. Take as long as you need before trying again xx

I had a miscarriage at the end of July and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.. sadly we're still waiting for our bfp.
But loads of ladies go on to get their bfp in the few months after, I know Melly on here recently did xx

 

[Melly41]

I did quite recently! I am very hopefully the two of you will do soon too and rach beattie. Its so tough the first few weeks. Take the time to let yourself heal both physically and emotionally. There is such wonderful support on this forum xx

 

[CDK500]

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Hope you’re ok x

 

[millielaura]

So sorry beckyboo its the worst feeling ever! I really.hope you get your raimbow soon!
I feel the same! I've had miscarriages in the past but this one has hit me really hard..I'm so lucky I have a duaghter but because I had her I kinda thought maybe everything would be ok and easily go well as I've done it once etc. xxx

 

[Rach beattie]

I’m so sorry to hear of ur loss. It is truly devastating for anyone to go through and I hope u have plenty of support around u. As melly said take for yourself and allow yourself to grieve and heal. We r all here if u need to talk. I had a mmc in September but unfortunately not a bfp yet altho I am hopeful that one day I will get one again. I promise it will get easier with time x

 

[SugaryIris]

Oh sweetie! I’m so so sorry to hear that! You must be utterly heart broken. You will get a healthy sticky bean soon xx

 

[Alexis2017]

So sorry, so heart breaking. I habe never had a bfp yet but I do know it would be devastating to go through that. I am sure you will find lots of support here. When your ready we will all be here in the ttc threads to support you too. Sending you hugs x

 

[BeckyBoo6747]

Thank you I am so thankful you all took the time to reply. It means a lot ladies.
It’s true though it is an awful thing to go through , my friends & family have also been very supportive , my other half is also so upset but we have both agreed we will try again when the time is right & everything happens for a reason I feel blessed to of even been pregnant even though it was for such a short time.

 

[Elven]

Becky, I'm so sorry for you. I can't begin to imagine how you feel. Hopefully you will get your sticky bean as soon as you're both ready, in the meantime just look after yourselves. xx

 

[tara_46]

It’s awfully heart breaking I had the same thing in September. It does get better though, look your partner for support.

Sorry about your loss

 

[MrsBunny]

So sorry for your loss. Hugs xx

 

[Shanivy]

So sorry this happened to you. I've been there and it is so devastating. I'm glad you have a good support system. Take as long as you think is right to try again, there's no right or wrong time frame. Mine wasn't recent but I went on to have my daughter afterwards with no issues and that really helped. I hope your get your little rainbow whenever you're ready. Hugs xxx

 

[BeckyBoo6747]

Thank you, that’s so good to hear. I’m feeling a little better today & am resting at home.
It will take a bit of time but I’m hopeful for the future , for now I’m just going to binge on boxsets & chocolate ha ha xx

 

[Mrs CW]

Sorry for your loss! Definitely take the time you need. I had an MMC in May and I didn’t give myself the time and ended up having to have time off a couple of months later to sort my head out. Glad you’re feeling a little better today, enjoy the boxsets and chocolate x

 

[millielaura]

That sounds a good idea. Hugs. I'be been trying to distract myself with cleaning and baking etc xx

 

[rainbow.23]

I'm so so sorry. There aren't any words to make this better, but know we are all thinking of you x

 

[tinydancer]

So sorry to hear this - I too had a chemical last cycle and was devastated! Didnt realize it would effect me so much. Actively trying now though! It will get better with time!

 

[BeckyBoo6747]

Thank you xxx

 

[BeckyBoo6747]

Xxx