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[mum2be?]

hi,

as you all know i lost my bean this week.

For the last week all me & oh have done is argue. Normally over silly little things. I feel i cant take anymore.

He dont not want to spend a night in at moment wants to be out with mates.

Keeps going on about me being off work, and that i should be at work.

I really dont know what to do anymore, its breaking my heart havin to go throught this & him being so unsportive.

I am sat here in tears, cant see pc properly. I am see this miscarriage splitting us up. & i am scared of this, I love him so much but he dont seam to understand.

 

[ella]

I am so sorry you having such a tough time. Men seem to deal with things differently - but that doesnt help you, and he should be more understanding and sympathetic. I would just say give it a little time, it will allow you both to heal and things may be a little clearer and easier.

 

[happy-chick]

Hiya hun, Spoke to you on MSN and think I said all that I needed to say. You know where I am if you need me & I'm sure you will sort things out after a good talk xxxx

 

[jenna]

Dont worry hun, youve both been through such a difficult time. Its bound to be hard on you both. Its probably just his way of copeing. Hope things are better soon.

 

[Babylicious]

I agree with Jenna hun

 

[NIE]

Try not to worry too much babes. It's just his way of coping with his emotions.

Look after yourself.

 

[clarey]

Aww hun, dont forget men are bizarre creatures, I'm sure he is feeling lost too, some people like to cope with stuff by shutting it out, I'm sure its not a rejection of you

Hang in there, be kind to yourselves

 

[trixipaws]

i agree with clarey hes probably shutting out his feelings. good luck 2 u both, i hope u work it out

 

[mum2be?]

UPDATE***

Just a little update

We have just got back from holiday it was a fab rest & me and john really had a talk about everything and both great as ever

Just him dealing with things his own way #

 

[Babylicious]

 

[mrs_tommo22]

Aww im so pleased mum2be! I hope you guys can talk in future about this cos in the end you both need to move on!

 

[BabyDreams]

PHEW! That's good news.
I don't know why men can't understand : Things would be a whole lot easier for them if they'd just deal with their feelings like woman do.
"Let me block this out and go get drunk" never solved anything for ANYONE!

 

[clarey]

Thats great, so glad you are OK