Hi all..
i have a three yr old daughter and a 3 week old son, when my daughter has gone to bed my partner will watch our son while i have a sleep in bed as at the moment i sleep down stairs through night so my son doesnt wake my daughter...but when im trying to sleep up stairs if our son cries i hear my partner shouting at him saying "have your dummy" and if he doesnt have it he just says fine dont have it then and he gets stressed with him,,,,he'd never hurt him and he doesnt try shake him etc..he just shouts n moans but if our son cries he doesnt really pick him up or talk to him..he has said that he doesnt love him like he loves our daughter n that he knows he will love him in time... im the one who does all the nappies and the day time/early morning looking after n my partner has him just 6 hours at night..but like i say he gets stressed but now i feel like i should just do everything with our son and not have extra sleep so my partner doesnt get stressed about him and maybe would start bonding with him..i hope this makes sense n it doest make my partner sound like a monster as he is fantastic with our daughter and would never harm anyone he just seems to be avoiding our son??
sorry for the log typing lol
i have a three yr old daughter and a 3 week old son, when my daughter has gone to bed my partner will watch our son while i have a sleep in bed as at the moment i sleep down stairs through night so my son doesnt wake my daughter...but when im trying to sleep up stairs if our son cries i hear my partner shouting at him saying "have your dummy" and if he doesnt have it he just says fine dont have it then and he gets stressed with him,,,,he'd never hurt him and he doesnt try shake him etc..he just shouts n moans but if our son cries he doesnt really pick him up or talk to him..he has said that he doesnt love him like he loves our daughter n that he knows he will love him in time... im the one who does all the nappies and the day time/early morning looking after n my partner has him just 6 hours at night..but like i say he gets stressed but now i feel like i should just do everything with our son and not have extra sleep so my partner doesnt get stressed about him and maybe would start bonding with him..i hope this makes sense n it doest make my partner sound like a monster as he is fantastic with our daughter and would never harm anyone he just seems to be avoiding our son??
sorry for the log typing lol