me and OH first argument because of an early scan: '(

[LucyAnn]

Oh god what a horrible start to weekend me and oh just had argument all week we been talking bout getting an early scan because of worries and for dating. We actually have a mw ap wed but she will not be doing scan maybe just aranging one. So we spoke of early scan I found one today only55 quid and local and he said yes but will phone mw to see if she can get one early.etc so he phoned left a message and text me to Say that we should just wair till Wednesday! !! I'm going crazy thinking WTF. I thought this was important you really wanted to know etc


So obviously it peed me off cus now I may not be able to bool private till. Monday which delays it and I actually turned around and said well u wait for nhs one and I will go on my own to private ( dunnp why I said that whoops)

Then he's said I'm being childish and should know he would ring mw before tgen?!?

I think I'm anoyed cus what if we can't handle this he is the love of my life and I don't feel ready mysekf or aa a couple we just gpt engaged buying house and I eould rather die than anything happen to us: (

I had a big chat with him the other night about be careful cus lately I'm taking things the wrong way- obviously didn't listen!

Sorry for long rant and sorry for typo's I'm on my phone.I may be making a mountain out a mole hill but he is usually so perfect and its upset me it made me n bean feel unimportant: +( xx

 

[Little Rose]

Hey. Having a baby can put a strain on even the very best of relationships and it does take time to adjust. Hopefully you can get past this and focus on your appointment on Wednesday. x

 

[LucyAnn]

Thanks for ur message I'm just so scared I'm not a strong person either x

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

Your mw will only refer you for a early scan if you've had multiple mc's otherwise your have to wait until 12 weeks. Explain that to your OH so hopefully he'll agree to a private scan. Hope everything goes well with your mw appointment x x

 

[LucyAnn]

Thankyou I think he knows that and thanks because I've mentioned that too we expressed our concerns to mw as I had still bin taking contraceptive pill and my sleeping pills and she wasn't concerned so we aren't too much about thoae things its just we need a dating scan. Because this is unexpected n it just felt like we went from being top priority to nothing I'm just so shocked at him x