Massive worry day!

[Kirsty.Y.84]

Hi

Firstly, sorry in advance for having a whinge, but I need to get it off my chest!

I'm massively worried today, nothing has really happened, but I feel like my symptoms have gone - boobs less sore, I don't feel sick, my unbearable hunger has gone and I just feel....normal!! Don't know what to do, I'm sure this means that baby is not there and I can't bear it. I have an early scan booked for Monday and I am terrified there will be nothing there.

I want to take another test to see if it still says pregnant but I'm scared it will say not

Just feel miserable. I don't know what I would do if anything happened, I literally couldn't cope.

Just want to curl up in a ball and cry

 

[K80]

Ah wee soul calm down!! You'll see from loads of other posts that everyone has days when symptoms seem to have disappeared. It's normal. And actually you should enjoy it! Have a relaxing day, do something to keep busy and your mind will be set at ease tomorrow. Chin up xxx

 

[TaffyRose]

Hey hun, I know exactly how you feel, I suddenly felt my boobs were less sore and panicked. But I'm now trying to calm down and chill. My OH who is very logical reminded me there's no reason to think anythings wrong so to just stay positive. I think we all get these days xxx

 

[Luckybean27]

I have felt like that sometimes but I spoke to my friend who is a midwife and she said there is absolutely no relationship in symptoms and whether your baby is ok etc. She said loads of people have no symptoms and you should just count yourself as lucky, she said to me if you spend the whole time worrying you will come to the end of your pregnancy and regret that you have spent the whole time worrying and not enjoyed it, since then I have stayed very positive xx

 

[TaffyRose]

I agree, my OH reminded me this is something magical I should be enjoying and he's right so that's the attitude I am going to take. Also my SIL is also pregnant and was taken into hospital last week with chronic morning sickness and is so poorly she had to be put on a drip so we really should think ourselves lucky if we don't suffer too much xx

 

[reillybaby1987]

Aww hun i'm sure everything is fine, the way i've looked at it is, if there's no blood or severe pain i just think everything is fine hope this puts your mind at ease a wee bit xxxx

 

[Kirsty.Y.84]

Thanks guys. I think it's just because all my symptoms seem to have disappeared today and I have heard that is a sign that you will have a missed miscarriage and I'm terrified of that as my friend had it last year. I hope to feel sick again tomorrow! And feel hungry again too! Lol!
I know I'm prob being silly it's just symptoms are comforting and now they've gone I'm preparing for the worst! Such a worrier I get on my own nerves!
xxxx

 

[reillybaby1987]

yeah but the thing is hun pregnancy is a constant worry until your LO arrives its only natural too worry, i had severe pains in my left side last night and i couldnt move off the spot now i still dont know what it was but im just hoping it was nothing serious, probably a bit of constipation sorry TMI but its just one of these things we do worry worry worry lol chin up xxxx

 

[Butterflykisses]

I woke up yesterday morning and got wee bit worried that boobs were less sore. Though after speaking to friend realised that this is perfectly ok. Yip boobs were back to being really sore when I took bra off to go to bed last night. Really strange how we complain when we have these symptoms but also when we don't. lol

 

[Loula]

i used to hate bras im actually loving them right now, hurt so much when it comes off at night x

 

[ourlovebump]

Awww babe, I did have that happen around 7 weeks as well, where I had exactly the same thoughts as you, but then morning sickness and exhaustion hit me like a ton of bricks a few days after again! You will be absolutely fine, I promise!!!! Hugs xxxx

 

[Kirsty.Y.84]

Thanks ladies and sorry for being a whinger! Feel a bit better today still no sickness but other symptoms returned. Thank you all for your replies x x x x

 

[kirstyp991]

I get that quite alot hun, some days my symptoms are really bad other days i have nothing at all, it did really worry me at first but now i kind of know its just my hormones all over the place xxx

 

[ourlovebump]

Yes, I did start to wonder if the hormones come in surges, as I tend to be feeling a lot worse some days than others! Well, I never thought I would once wish this for somebody, but I hope you start feeling 'pregnant sick' again hun! xxx