i just wanted to say thank you to everyone here that has replied to my posts over the past month i really appretiate it and it has really helped me deal with all this, when i had my first m/c i was asked by the hospital if i wanted to join a group for women who have had m/c but i was put off as i didnt really want to sit in a room filled with grieving women i thought this would make me feel worse i only wish i had found this site years ago, im now addicted to it. Its good to chat to people who have been through much similar things, when someone has a m/c we are always told that it is soo common but usually dont know anyone has has been through it, i think alot of people take it for granted that they will decide to start a family and everything will be fine, but most people here know that thats not the case.