Hello Fee,
I am so so sorry to hear this - I hope that you are taking some time off work to grieve (you get full maternity leave, right?) and that your friends and family are being supportive.
I am sure that in time you are your OH will get through this and go on to have new baby, if that's what you both want.
I am so so sorry for your loss. Were you 28 weeks ish when you went into labour?
Valentine xxx