Not really sure where to start with this so sorry for the ramble but I cannot keep going on to my husband and my best friend is great but just has no idea what I am going through and thinks I just need to have a few sad days and and then get on with it.
I had a d&c yesterday after finding out via a scan last thursday at 9 weeks that the baby did not have a heartbeat and had died a few days earlier looking at the size of it. It was my first pregnancy and was so wanted it just has really hit me hard. I am feeling better than I did now the procedure was done as I struggled over the weekend knowing I had something dead inside me.
To me it was my baby already and I had started to talk to it and just because it was not even started to be anywhere near developed I had started to love it.
I just feel so sad about it all and even though hubby and I are going to try almost straight away, we have said May as we have just booked a holiday to give us something to look forward to and have said that this is when we will start again, I cannot stop thinking about it all.
I just keep thinking why me, when it is something I have wanted forever, why did this have to happen to me and what did I do wrong. I also keep feeling that I have let everyone down as our parents and siblings were so excited to have a new baby in the family.
I have been signed of work for the rest of the week which is going to help as I dont want to snap at anyone at work over things when I am not feeling myself.
I just cannot see how I am going to get over this.
Sorry for the ramble, just needed to empty my head.
I had a d&c yesterday after finding out via a scan last thursday at 9 weeks that the baby did not have a heartbeat and had died a few days earlier looking at the size of it. It was my first pregnancy and was so wanted it just has really hit me hard. I am feeling better than I did now the procedure was done as I struggled over the weekend knowing I had something dead inside me.
To me it was my baby already and I had started to talk to it and just because it was not even started to be anywhere near developed I had started to love it.
I just feel so sad about it all and even though hubby and I are going to try almost straight away, we have said May as we have just booked a holiday to give us something to look forward to and have said that this is when we will start again, I cannot stop thinking about it all.
I just keep thinking why me, when it is something I have wanted forever, why did this have to happen to me and what did I do wrong. I also keep feeling that I have let everyone down as our parents and siblings were so excited to have a new baby in the family.
I have been signed of work for the rest of the week which is going to help as I dont want to snap at anyone at work over things when I am not feeling myself.
I just cannot see how I am going to get over this.
Sorry for the ramble, just needed to empty my head.