Just lost it will baby be ok?

[nik106]

My OH and i are always having disagreements about his driving! He's a new driver too, young and somewhat feeling invincible whereas i've been driving for 8 years (eek!) I think he feels that i can't say anything about it because a) he feels he's a good driver and b) that because i had a high performance sports car and drove it hard (i only part x'd it because i was pregnant, i miss it like crazy and sobbed my heart out all the way to the garage and for weeks before and days after, i still get sad when i see one driving round) that i can't really talk. The difference being that i had already been driving 3 years when i bought it, although i was the same age he is now, it cost me a fortune so i was somewhat cautious and i spent time getting used to the way the car handled before i let it rip. The car he's driving is either technically ours, although exchanged with mine, and the work vans so he doesn't have the same consideration to its cost etc!

Think there must have been something in the air cos we had a massive row last night too, although over something unrelated to driving and things are still very frosty now! I'm not worried about our lo, more that because i'm stressed beyond belief that she'll just take longer to arrive!

 

[jomc]

What I hate about arguing with my OH is its always in the evenings, and he manages to get into bed and sleep no problem whereas Im up all night upset. I feel like waking him up and saying "how the hell can u sleep? Do u just not give a sh*t"

 

[Princess81]

Lol how is it that men can just sleep on demand even after a row? I'm the same, sit up brooding over it for ages.
Hope all is better this evening Pos, men seem to think their driving is far better than ours, which is bollocks FACT. x

 

[positivity :)]

Yep, Jamie went straight off to sleep last night the bugger! All day Iv felt so tired and have thar horrible feeling u get in ur eyes after crying the night before, I look like shit too

Had a few apologies today tho but I'm doing the moody quiet thing so he knows I'm still pissed off. He just bought me some ben and jerrys chocolate brownie ice cream and offered to make the dinner!

Princess, a blind disabled rat would be a better driver than my OH, he's awful! Xx

 

[TiffanyJaynexo]

Don't feel bad hun! Me and OH have argued too (some pretty bad one's) and I even punched my laptop screen the other day (hence why it's broke)

As long as you're not constantly in distress (I don't think that's even possible) then baby will be fine I just feel bad that Grace can now hear every word, so I always tell OH to shut the funk up when we're arguing because Grace can hear us! xxx

 

[positivity :)]

yeah, its awful coz we probably snap a lot quicker than usual but its the worse time to as u end up feeling bad on the lo.

i'm sure he's fine tho, he's still giving me some big kicks, even as i type

xx