June 2014 Mummy's to be!

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I've told a few people at work... To be honest more incase I need to run away... Being the pessimist!! But I haven't even told my own mum yet! Probably will once the scan is out the way next Thursday... Still scared to announce it to a lot of people.
My sister found out she was preggo with number 3 the same day I did, but she has told family... Annoyingly they all keep asking her if I'm ok with it(?!?!) because I has the ectopic and they know we are "trying". So now I'm just getting sympathetic looks off them... Blleeuugghh... Hormones are making me bitchy!
 
I've told a couple more people since scan this week, all feels a bit strange and keep stopping myself from getting too excited still even though. We've had scan with heartbeat, I've had no spotting or badd cramps...why can I still not relax?? Haha still lacking major symptoms, which I know sort of makes me lucky but something would I think keep me feeling reassured.

People at my work keep saying ooh you'll be next (we've got a lot of woman of the right kind of age) little do they know that seemingly I will be next!!
 
It's all very nerve racking! Feel like your tempting fate by saying anything!

I get a lot of the "you're next" but I'm the only one in office who will have anymore babies...

Bless him my boss was happy, but already adding up dates and the panic was visible in his face lol
 
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I've not decide whether to tell close family and friends yet. We didn't last time and it made life very hard esp how ill I was so might tell some people so I can get some sympathy! The nausea has properly kicked in today, feeling crappy and moody for some reason.
 
I know what you mean Elliott. We've had 2 scans now and seen the heartbeat as well but I'm still paranoid something is going to go wrong. I keep expecting to feel different but I don't so it doesn't feel real.

You've made me think now Sarah13, perhaps not telling people might be a bad idea because if it does go wrong then I may need them for support.....

I have a feeling either way the next 6 weeks is going to feel like a lifetime!
 
Jo I've told only those that I know would be good support should anything happen, no kind of "general people" know yet at all and I'll wait for 12 wks for that. Not being ill has helped to keep it all quiet although a house warming tomorrow might be tricky and people I run with will soon realise I'm going a lot slowers and taking it easy!
 
I keep thinking id something went wrong Id be telling my mum and best mate anyway so may as well tell them! Just not sure when, I've still not got my head round it myself yet!
 
I've had my sister staying with me for the past week so I told her as soon as she arrived, would have been impossible not to. Also told one of my best friends as we've all been hanging out together since my sis arrived and I must admit it makes me feel so much more relaxed that they know and I don't have to pretend. We were out in a big group last night and I'm not saying I need a drink for confidence but I feel like being on edge about pretending I'm drinking makes me feel less confident, will feel so much better in other peoples company when I can tell everyone xxx
 
Got my scan app through this morning! 2nd Dec, seems like a lifetime away! Think we are going to have a private reassurance scan at about 7-8 weeks though, will break up the waiting time.
 
Morning ladies :-) how are we all ?! I've managed to keep a bacon butty down this morning, so am I happy girl this morning, although the sickness usually starts in the afternoon and lasts until 8ish! Still not got the sore boobies, but my nipples are starting to hurt ALOT, the fact I've not managed to have a number two for a few days is starting to worry me a little! Still haven't heard anything from the midwife even though I went to the doctors on Tuesday, think I should give her a ring on Monday morning!

Let's hope for a good weekend :-)
 
I'm sat in an Asda carpark wolfing down a prawn salad as I'm starving and can't wait til I get home! Noticed it's when I need to eat that I start to feel sick.

Who's watching X factor tonight? :D xxx
 
I only start to feel sick once i eat something and first thing in the morning, so its making me not want to eat anythinf, no in the mood for anything xx
 
I'm stressing about my lack of symptoms today and worrying something is going to go wrong. DH keeps telling me not to worry but it is so much easier said than done isn't it? Can't believe I'm actually wanting to feel sick!!?!
 
Im the same as you jo, i dont have many symptoms and keep stressing that things are going to go wrong, ive only started gettin the nausea about a week ago and ive not been sick, just feel it when i eat xx
 
I remain pretty symptom free, if I'm hungry maybe feel a little rough but nothing dramatic at all. Just keeping remembering that everyone is different.

Had flu jab today, little bit of a bruise feeling where it was but that's all so far which is good
 
Hi girls lovely to hear how you're all doing. I'm a wee bit behind you all so no sickness yet but I'm thinking it'll kick in next week. Like you Jo I'm sort of wanting to feel sick as it'll feel reassuring like baby is ok in there. A week on Monday till my early scan, it really can't come quick enough. Xxx
 
If anyone is wanting sickness they can gladly have mine! I'm throwing up so much now it's actually starting to worry me, that the baby isn't getting enough nutrients because I'm keeping next too nothing down. Is there anything I could actually do to try and keep something down? I've tried eating different things at different times of the day, but nope that doesn't seem to be working. I'm just glad I'm not stick thin, because at least my body has some of its own stores :-)
 
DaniOwl, don't worry about whether you are providing for little one because at the moment you liver has all the nutrients stored that it needs.
Keep on drinking fluids. Ice poles, flat fizzy drinks etc are good. And just eat little bits of whatever takes your fancy. Nothing too dairy or citrus because that might make it worse. Try and get some sickness bands see if they help.
I hope it gets better for you soon!

My nausea is different every day, yesterday and today I've been fine.
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