its amazing it really is.
I agree with Nicola, its the governments fault for making it so easy to live on benefits and so hard to find a job. Ok, we all know in reality its NOT that hard to find a job, jobs are there to be had if your not fussy about what you do, but what the government do is make it harder to come off benefits.
They play around with the stats too - did you know that anyone on job seekers is no-longer classed as unemployed for the purposes of stats so when they say unemployment has dropped, it actually hasnt, theres just more people on job seekers.
I think that anyone having that many kids without their own income coming in is irresponsible, greedy, and downright selfish. If you cant support a large family on your own, dont have one!
I feel a rant coming on too, but I must remain calm
I have been on benefits myself inbetween jobs, for almost a year when I first moved to wales, but I was looking and eventually found work. It wasnt easy, mainly because I didnt know the area, had no transport, and was in a real tight spot for a while. But I hated every minute of it. I felt like a failure, and I was sharing a house with a friend who was on disability for "depression" - once I found a job he was still clearing more each month than I was earning. He had a nice house paid for, all he had to pay for out of his benefits was food, bills and fags. He was well happy with that! Seriously, I know depression and believe that it can prevent you from holding down a job, but he wasnt genuine atall. Sitting next to him and feeling like I was scrounging while he was lapping it all up really taught me something about myself.
I think the benefit system really needs to be tightened up. It was created to help those in dire need, and should remain as it was intended, but not for people like this. The dad should be made to get out and find a job....if he hasnt got the qualifications to earn 44k a year to match thier benefits - well tough luck they should have thought about that before having so many kids.