It's Over!:(

Louise0410

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Im so upset right now typing through my tears:(

We both talked and decided that it's best if we split up i am so upset i know its the right thing but i just never imagined us being apart he wants us to stay friends and he'll still see keryn its just gona b so hard when shes asking where daddy is i just dont know what to tell her as shes still young i feel like ive let her down so much but although keryn is young shes aware whats goin on and can see that im upset i deserve to be treated better than what i was with ian we wernt making each other happy so things had to end

thanx for reading just needed to tell someone
xxxxxxx
 
Oh hun, I know I'm speaking to you on MSN but please don't feel you have let Keryn down, you haven't!! You haven't done anything wrong and if you were to stay together and be unhappy it would affect her alot more. She still has her Mum and Dad but just seperately :hug: :hug:
 
Awww hun :hug: :hug: :hug: You haven't let Keryn down at all... none of this is your fault :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Oh hun :hug: You haven't let her down at all... I know this is going to sound really terrible and probably not what you want to hear, but it's probably best it's happened now and not 6 years down the line when she is old enough to remember the split. All she will remember is that Mum & Dad broke up when she was young, she won't remember the hurt for long...

I think he's left you in a good position now (although it doesn't seem like it now) you're young enough to meet someone else in the future and settle into life with just you and your daughter.

I really hope things get better for you both and you can become friends as well as parents to your beautiful daughter.

You can do it though hun, us women are stronger than we realise.

I'm doing this alone too, although I completely understand it's much harder for you having your daughter here, mine doesn't have a clue what's waiting for her when she arrives! Just Mummy, Daddy didn't want to stick around!

Anyway babe, chin up, you will get through this pain... :hug: xxx
 
Just wanted 2 say thanx for all ur comments they mean a lot 2 me xxxxxx
 
You will get through this hun and at least your daughter is too young to remeber and breaking up on good terms will bode well for the future!
 
:hug: Sorry to hear this, the good thing is you are going to stay friends with will be great for your daughter. If you both weren't happy then it sounds as though you are doing the right thing :hug:
 
As everyone else has said, it sounds like your doing the right thing! :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
Oh hun, I have just seen this.... I'm so sorry!

Why didnt you say something when I spoke to you on MSN.

Sending loads of big :hug:
 
Really sorry to read this Louise, all the very best. It's probably not much consolation right now but it is definitely better now than a few years down the line when your little girl is old enough to be severely affected; you could even have more children to think about by then.

It will get easier given time, take care :hug:
 
Thankyou girls for all ur supportive comments dnt know wot ad do without ma forum girlies its been 2 days now n things r getting a bit better but im still finding it so hard to actually believe the fact that were not together i just keep waiting for him to come home wondering if this was all just a dream but i know its not things will get better in time everyone keeps telling me so im just going to try n get on with things

thanx again every1 ur comments have made me feel lovely
xxxxxx
 

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