It never rains but it pours...

It's hard believe me! I just want to shut the door on them all and just to hide but i can't it's not their fault I feel like this. So I kind of sit there and listen to the excitement. Just hope one day they'll do the same for me. We will see xx
 
Hi Joey - I used the fertility monitor and I have to say, I am not sure about it... I got a smiley OPK on Wednesday but didnt get my peak on the fertility monitor until Friday / Saturday... it looks for a rise in LH and Estrogen whereas the OPK detects any level of LH over a baseline figure.

My thing with the fertility monitor is this... if your urine is diluted one day, won't it miss the rise as the hormones will be more diluted? And if it is less dilute but you are at the end of your surge, it will detect the level as higher than the day before even though your surge is nearly over... with the monitor you get 2 peak days and up to 6 high fertility days. however the second peak day is automatic - therefore my theory is that that second peak day may well be too late because your first day could have been too late as per my argument above!

perhaps i am over analysing - i tend to do this! but at least with a smiley face / positive OPK, you know that your LH is over a baseline amount and not just a comparison on the day before which you could well have messed up by not weeing properly....

I did find that my surge with the fertility monitor was later than my usual positive OPK and this also backed up my theory.

hmmmm

try it though - its worked for a few people on here i think.

PS 1 had 5 high fertility days, 2 peaks and 1 high after - that is a LOT of BD!!!!
 
Hi Emily,

That was just like reading an amazing new language! I'll have to get up to speed with all of this and quick!!

I have the digital opk and used it in May, I got smiley faces on cd12 and 13. the month after tested from day 12 and nothing so I didn't bother testing last cycle as I was trying to be chilled!

Ok, so when it asks me to poas I do that fmu. Then the digis say later in the day so as my fertility peaks on monitor I may start to digi test to see if smiley face happens. Could it be that digi sticks detect Ovu in 24-36 hours (your Wednesdsy test) but monitor detects 'actual' ovulation happening now?

I'm completely guessing, it's so technical that my brain hurts!!

Thanks so much for the info, are you still using both now?

Xx
 
Joey - i hope you are feeling better today pet.

SMEP. hmmmm maybe i should give that a try too.
 
Hi Julianne,

I'm feeling much better thanks, how are you doing?

Xx
 
Glad you're feeling better hun

Its amazing how depressing the witch showing can be.

xx
 
Hey Flisstebbs,

I know, I can't believe how it completely takes a hold of you. I'm not in a good place ttc as I keep on thinking about when we can try next. I'm surrounded by a lot of friends who are ttc so I have constant reminder. The majority do not know about me ttc so I'm doing a lot of 'when it happens it happens' and 'I'm too busy to consider it'. My husband was right, I shouldn't have mentioned it to anyone as I feel the pressure and disappointment each month.

I know my time will come, one way or another!

I just bought a book by Zeta West, it's all about ttc and IVF but a friend told me she wishes she read it in her early days of ttc as it really would have helped her. I'll let you know how I get on!

Xx
 
Thanks so much, going to try my best to have fun the next couple of months and go with the flow!

Xx
 
Hi Joey, if it helps I think we joined here and started ttc at the same time and I'm still not pregnant either. I know exactly how you feel and I don't understand how it can be so bloody hard!! I took a break from here for a little while because I think it was making me even more obsessed! I have felt a lot more chilled this month and not been 'trying' so hard but as af is looming I'm starting to feel fed up again. Anytime you need a chat I'm here xx
 

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