Hi girls,
Me and DH are both overjoyed beyond words with our gorgeous 3 month old daughter. She is a really good baby who sleeps all night and smiles her way through the day. BBBUUUTTT.....our marriage has never been so rocky. DH has still not come near me (sexually). He did not want to when I was pregnant and now he has not made any moves to say that he is interested (I will not make the first move because he has rejected me before). We spend our days snapping at each other (not infront of the baby). We always went out together but now he tries to find other people to accompany us. He shows me no affection what so ever. We are going on holiday tommorow (caravan in Newquay) so I am determined to sort it out...one way or the other. Is anyone else going through a similar thing? I really don't want to leave because of the baby but I think to myself that I only have one life and can't put up with this for much longer. I will try and discuss this with him when we are away but you know what men are like when it comes to discussing problems...
Julia xxxx
Me and DH are both overjoyed beyond words with our gorgeous 3 month old daughter. She is a really good baby who sleeps all night and smiles her way through the day. BBBUUUTTT.....our marriage has never been so rocky. DH has still not come near me (sexually). He did not want to when I was pregnant and now he has not made any moves to say that he is interested (I will not make the first move because he has rejected me before). We spend our days snapping at each other (not infront of the baby). We always went out together but now he tries to find other people to accompany us. He shows me no affection what so ever. We are going on holiday tommorow (caravan in Newquay) so I am determined to sort it out...one way or the other. Is anyone else going through a similar thing? I really don't want to leave because of the baby but I think to myself that I only have one life and can't put up with this for much longer. I will try and discuss this with him when we are away but you know what men are like when it comes to discussing problems...
Julia xxxx