I'm so scared

[vampire_dolly]

I'm really really panicking now i'm absoultly terrified.

I'm 16, pregnant and all alone.

The dad wants me to have a abortion, my mom would disown me and kick me out if she knew(And I don't have a dad or any other family), I can barely walk due to my bad hip (Baby is really hurting it), I don't have anyone who can help me at all and i've been so ill since january.

If I don't have sugary foods/drinks every hour or so I go faint and collapse (exept when i'm asleep.) I haven't slept a full night in ages without waking up sweating or feeling sick or just in pain. I'm already phobic of pregnancy/pregnant women and also of vomit... not easy when theres a baby inside you and your throwing up all the time !

Sorry I just needed to rant, I am so upset and confused I don't know what the hell to do with myself!

 

[Skyla]

Aw hun, it sounds like you're having a rough time of it. Do you not want to have an abortion? Of course, the other option is adoption after birth.

I hope things get better for you but for now you should seriously consider your options

Good luck xx

 

[Princess_Puddles]

I was pregnant at 16, had my Son at 17 and it was/is hard, if you ever need to chat then just PM me hun

 

[vampire_dolly]

To be honest I know abortion would be the best option for me but I don't think i'd be able to live with that let alone go through it I'm so confused.

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

hey hun if i was u id talk to ur mum there is no way u can keep this a secret (even tho holly oaks says different )
u need someone to tlk to and well all be here for u but u need ur mum at a time like this she could surprise u and be really supportive
i thought my parents would kill me but they were great dissappointed but helped me out loads

 

[Melly+2]

its hard hunny, i was 18 when i got pg and everyone wanted me to have an abortion but i refused but now they love our bubba to bits xx

 

[Minxy]

Hey, hope you're feeling better today.

It sounds like you really need to talk about your situation with someone in 'real life'. As has been said before, we're all here to listen and support you but you may not get an unbiased ear regarding your options from a baby-mad forum!

If not your parents, is there a mentor/counsellor at school that might listen? Or maybe a Brook clinic. If you want any help finding someone in your area to listen, PM me and I'll try to help. I'm in South Birmingham and know the area well.

xxxxx

 

[*saulino*]

Hi Hun

Hope you find someone that you trust who you can talk with . We are here if you need us as well
Whatever you decide to do , do it for yourself and not anyone else
Katrina

 

[Urchin]

Aw no

I know things might seem bad now, but although your parents might be mad when they find out, they may not "disown" you like you think. I had a friend in a similar situation and she was petrified of telling her folks, she didn't tell them till she was almost due (she was a bit large anyway and wore huge jumpers to over the bump) They were shocked but much more supportive than she ever imagined they would be.

Minxy is right, there are loads of places you can go for help, support groups etc. How is your GP about it? Can they recommend somewhere?

We are all here for you.

 

[Riley's Mommy]

hi hun.

have you told your mom yet?

hope you are well

 

[vampire_dolly]

thanks all,

Nup mother doesnt know yet

I keep having dreams where people are hurting me and i'm screaming don't hurt my baby, I hope to God that I don't sleeptalk, don't want her finding out that way

 

[Little miss pink]

Hi hun

Have you told anyone yet other than the father I really think you should be sharing this with someone, preferably your mum or someone you are closest too. Its too much to go through on your own in private and there is only so long that you can keep this to yourself. It might seem like the scariest thing in the world to tell your mum this but after the initial shock has settled in i'm sure you will be pleased that you have shared it with her and that you now have someone to talk to and help you though this.

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I agree i think you should go for it , it will probably be better then you think
Katrina

 

[Riley's Mommy]

i also agree. i think you need to tell her hun. she will find out soon enough, mothers have a habit of knowing these things lol.

good luck hun

 

[hannahbet20]

i was 16 when i got pregnant i thought my mum would go mad but it turns out she was a really great support its harder going through it wondering i think you should just blurt it out im sure she would be fine.

 

[Barmi_Brummeh]

Aww chick
I kno how u feel, i was 14 wen i got preggers n 15 wen i had my daughter.
Are u sure ur mum will go mad? I thought my dad wud go ballistic!!! But when i told him he was really supportive, told me that i shud consider a abortion but if i didnt he'd support me.

If u dont kno if u want an abortion or not, or dont think u can go thru with it how about try talkin to someone from brook or ya doc about gettin councellin?

If ya need to chat chick pm me.

Things will get better

 

[LPx]

im 16 and also pregnant and also dreading telling my parents

iv decided 2 keep my baby, i have faith in myself 2 do well and bring it up right.

also suffering the sickness its awful but apparently it passes.

good luck and if u fancy a chat just pm me

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

hey girls i hope vamipire_dolly doesnt mind me posting this but looks like some of u havent seen her post
http://www.pregnancyforum.co.uk/forum/v ... hp?t=31369 heres the link

sorry again hun

 

[sophie-jordan]

aww hun, sounds like u r having a bad tym, i was 14 when i had my 1st n thort it would all go rong but in some situations ur parents react differnt to wat u expect so r u 100% sure u mum will go mad? u need to be able to tell her soon so u av got that weight off ur shoulders
pm me if u ever want to talk
gd luck
x sophie x

 

[frangelle]

I was in exactly the same position as you. I was 17 my family went nuts when they found out, refused to talk to me for about 5 months, tried to make me have an abortion as did the father. But now my family adore my son, I am happily married to someone who treats him like his own, and am pregnant again.

I showed everyone I could do it alone, and although its hard, it makes you a much stronger person. Do what you think is right, not what people tell you to, other wise you'll regret it forever.

If you evre want to chat PM me, I know exactly what you are going through xxx