Im so scared... i think im going to have to do this alone...

[lozzi]

the father of my unborn child, the love of my life, is turning out to be far from the person i know. he made it quite clear he wasnt having anything to do wtih teh child from the start, but he said he would support me till the end of the pregnancy, and he hoped he or i would change my mind at the end, eg me adopt it or he come round.

But suddenly he is now ignoring me. He is ignoring my calls/texts. what am i supposed to do.

why do blokes always fall at the first hurdle. i feel so hurt and so let down. i didnt choose to fall pregnant.

i love him so much, and he claims to lvoe me but how can he do this coz he knows how upset i am about it all.

I cant stop crying i really need some support if anyone is online.

thanks

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

awww hunni, i found out i was pregnant at 21 weeks wen i told my OH he was going to support me then a week later he started to ignore me, now he comes round and trys to upset me [ays no interest in B! if he is gonna be like that he dont deserve either u or your baby hun, if u ever need to tlk either PM me or im on MSN

 

[Wobbles]

Awww Lozzi I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time especially at the start of your pregnancy when you need him there.

I'm sure man was supposed to come with instructions!

Do you have supportive family?

I've read a couple of your posts & I'm glad you didn't go through with a choice that you may of regretted from what I read but even adoption is this what you want in YOUR heart? Or is this because you want to keep the person you love & do what they think would be right?

 

[cab'o'holic]

Men can be so hurtfull! Do you realy need and want him if he is like that?
Dont make any quick disisions as when the baby arrives all you will want to do is love it, I would not be with out my son for anything or anyone, you get so much love of them. think it through properly, for what you want not him!!

 

[Urchin]

Awww (((HUG)))
You really are better off without him. If he can somehow think that his behaviour is justified he doesn't deserve you.
Did he NEVER want kids? Have you ever spoken about it before?
Would you have been happy staying with him if it meant never having kids of your own?
I know it seems like such an awful thing to be a single mom, but when your baby arrives you will see how wonderful it is being a parent.