I'm really struggling ...

[twinkle84]

now that I'm back at work!! It's not the being ready or organised but I miss LO so much that my heart aches! Work is really tiring and I have to bring work home! Sometimes hubby not home till 10 from work, so it's tough! I'm worn out! LO goes mums and is really happy there! But I'm starting to feel insecure, what if he doesn't love me as much? What if he's happier there? When I get him it's tea time and his worst time off day as he's so wingy! I just keep crying! Is it normal to feel like this? Thanks xx

 

[xxbeckyxx]

Aww hun I know what you mean! When I get Lizzie from the childminders she is so happy playing etc and then as soon as we get home she gets really whingy and frustrated with everything! I love that she gets lots of attention at the childminders but it makes it hard when I have lots to do after work at home so have to put her in her bouncer/playpen, cos I feel so guilty!
It's horrible as well when I get customers in the shop with their babies cos I miss her so much and I really resent people who are lucky enough not to work and get to spend all day with their LOs...which is really irrational!

Big hun, hopefully things will get better in time x

 

[Minchin]

totally the same here. Have long have you been back. It got easier after a few weeks. xxx

 

[Esoames]

Islas worst time of the day is the evening, but it is getting better as she gets older. I must admit I'm enjoying being at work, and Isla is benefting from being around other children. I'm not cut out to be a housewife! Lol x

 

[twinkle84]

totally the same here. Have long have you been back. It got easier after a few weeks. xxx

It's my 3rd week! Not getting any easier at mo! LO is all I've wanted and now I'm missing out on part of his life!! Sorry I know I'm dramatic! X
Thanks nice to know other Babis are a bit wingy on a tea time x

 

[Minchin]

nah its not dramatic, it's sad when you feel you are not where you want to be. do you work full or part time? what are your hours like? Im lucky and quite enjoy my job and am part time at the mo. I will be going full time again next september. xxx

 

[twinkle84]

Aw thanks luv, I actually only do 3 days 8am whilst 5:30 pm but I have to do a lot work at home too! I'm sure I'll get used to it! X

 

[Minchin]

the work from home bit must be tiring when you have to fit it around LO. Hang on in there. not long to go til Chrimbo!!!!! xx