im really not happy

[emmaandamyleigh]

grrrr how insensitive are people

i know its nice to know peoples good news but OH sister just likes to rub it in a bit but who nos what could happen

ok just before my daughter was born we found out his sister is pregnant, his mum is very other the moon about it really happy, but she wasnt like this with us. any ways she finds out today shes having a lil girl shes due in june and all shes talked about since is she cant wait till she gets out off hospital with her baby, knowing my little girl is in hospital she just goes on and on and it really upsets me coz my lil girl has been born for three weeks now and hasnt got out of hospital and needs to be in for a few more weeks and it tearing me heart out that i cant be with my LO atm money is a bit tight this week so i cant see her till friday but his sister is rubbing it in my face atm


and to top it all off OH is in a huff wi me tmi to follow lol i was going to the toilet and he was standing at the door agigitating me as it doesnt lock he can open it lol so he was standing next to it and i pushed it a lil and he went off in a mood banging and punching the door the turned round and called me im nothing but a useless cow lol and now he siting there playing his ps3 and ive told him how im feeling atm and he just sits there ignoring me so i sed i was sorry about the door thing and he just shrugs grrrr wait till friday when he wants lego, yes i say lego hes a 25 year old whos into lego lmao i dunno whos going to be worse when amy comes home her or him lol .

sorry about this long thread too

 

[Me, My Girls & I]

i'm crap with words, but wanted to send you some hugs hun xxxx

 

[charliebear]

Just wanted to send some Hope little Amy is well enough to come home soon. x

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

awwww thank you i just thought id post on here coz i got no one else to talk to xxx

 

[charliebear]

Plenty of people here to chat hun.
Rant away! There are plenty who will sympathise with the insensitive MIL too! x

 

[Piglet10]

id sell the ps3 and go see ur wee girl!!! nah just kidding thats evil lol muahahahaha!!! men r pricks!!! its not their fault its in their blood lol but i would get him onto putting a lock on the door hows amyleigh??? xxx

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

ooo i dont get on wi other half mother, she didnt like the fact her son was going to be a dad and dint think he do a good job lol she has a go at me nearly everyday if its not about money its about where we live if its not that its about how many time chris gets to see amy and its like well for us to go see amy he has to work in order to pay to get there.

ive come to the conclusion his mum only has a go at me coz he will tell her where to go and that she wont see amy at all and she has a go at me coz she no im too soft and not say out like that but she keeps going and i will snap lol simple as. its like we live where chris works so its cheaper till we get our own place we only have the one room and bathroom there is enuff room for amy till she a toddler. his mum lives down the road and never comes to see him unless she comes to the pub for a meal, he goes down to see her and hes left standing outside coz shes to ashamed to let him in coz the state of the place so i sed to her when amy is out youll have to come to the pub to see amy and she sed why and im like well after all this do you really think ill come down there to be left standing on the doorstep talking to you and her ending bck up in hospital i dont think so like. and she went off in a huff

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

yeah shes doing good she has to go to threatre next week for the surgeon to look at her nose and give it a clean out and put new tubes in then after tht she should have them in for 4 more weeks then taken out yay! she was getting transferred but they posponed that till she has her appointment with the surgeon then there getting her transferred.

she has a sore bum, which shes had since theyve put her on milk now they think she could be allergic to cows milk or something like that coz none of the creams are working plus there going to stop her feed for 24 hours and put her on a drip shes not going to be happy about it like lol and try her on a different milk aswell lol confusing me what there doing with her aswell but shes doing good

 

[Piglet10]

let her huff mrs... shes only having a go at you cos she can but dont mil's realise there is a fine line and when ur not related its quite easy to walk away. u can only do the best u and partner can do for your little girl and if she thinks its not good enough let her stump up the cash and if she dont wanna do that... if she cant help change the situation no point moaning bout it amy will be well seen to im sure!! xx

 

[Piglet10]

theyll prob try her with soya milk which alot of babies are moved onto... me being one of them back in the day lol ... at least shes in safe hands.. ull not know yourself when you get her home. im surprised the hosp dont pay for yous to visit tho :s its a bit crap when u have limited income that they cant help you xxx

 

[Lynniepants]

hes a 25 year old whos into lego

This had me worried that my OH had another woman on the go


Big for you tho. Not a good time especially as it seems no one is supporting you

 

[Sam's Mum]

Is there no way the hospital can arrange for you to stay somewhere near her so that you can visit? Hope everything goes well for her next week, and so sorry your MIL is treating you so badly

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

yeah his mother says she "cant" afford to lend us money,but she can buy big tvs and laptops and buy stuff for his sister baby she never bothered with us and it takes me to mention amy for her to ask after her lol but oo well shes getting all the love she needs off us and oh dad and step mum

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

no weve tried the hospital and cant get nowhere to stay plus oh needs to be here for wok which he feels guilty for bless him

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

work i mean lol*

 

[Sam's Mum]

Well hopefully it won't be for too much longer and at least you know she's getting the best care where she is

 

[emmaandamyleigh]

yeah i know lol

lol lynnie i hope you know i was talking abou the toy lego lol haha no he nos if he did do it behind my back lol that he will only ever have one daughter lmao coz he would have no family jewels left down there lol

 

[Lynniepants]

Haha, same with mine. 25 year old men into lego.... maybe they should swap emails and talk about the cool things they've built!!

 

[NewboldNewMum]

Emma, not sure if this will be any use to you, but here's a link explaining about help with travel costs to hospitals..

http://www.patient.co.uk/health/Help-with-Travel-Costs-to-Hospital.htm

I remember when my little sister was born and had to be in the children's intensive care unit, that my parents got help with travel costs to and from the hospital she was in.

Hope Amy gets better soon, so that she can be with you at home.

On the subject of Lego and men, my dad has loads and he's 60 this year. lol

 

[Rowesb]

there mustbe some way that u can get help with travel costs, is there a social worker attached to the unit?
Gad she is doing so well
Families... blah, they can be so hard work