im missing my baby
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I'm sorry i've only just seen this 
, and really hope that your ok. She maybe in a hospital but she deffo needs you as a mum, times and days are hard and we all deal with things differently so please dont take anything i say in a bad or negative way, i just want to let you know that i'm thinking of you and if you ever want to talk then please feel free to PM at anytime.
I can watch most things but i couldnt watch them do that to Calum either, he had his put in a couple of times and it ended up in his arm, but the area around it look so sore and purple it wasnt very nice to see
, but think about it as it wont be there for very long!
I hope that you have support from a partner, nurses, friends?? I find it hard to let people into how i'm truly feeling but luckly managed to get on with some of the nurses greatly who then in turn realised that i had to do/learn everything possible about the care/machines so that i could do it all myself when i was there otherwise i wouldnt have coped. I sometimes found it hard when certain nurses where seeing to Calum and had to leave the ward or go to a room and cry or even told them to leave him alone
Do you know how long your baby will be in SCBU?
I hope things get better for you soon and that your be home as a family before you know it.
, and really hope that your ok. She maybe in a hospital but she deffo needs you as a mum, times and days are hard and we all deal with things differently so please dont take anything i say in a bad or negative way, i just want to let you know that i'm thinking of you and if you ever want to talk then please feel free to PM at anytime.I can watch most things but i couldnt watch them do that to Calum either, he had his put in a couple of times and it ended up in his arm, but the area around it look so sore and purple it wasnt very nice to see
, but think about it as it wont be there for very long!I hope that you have support from a partner, nurses, friends?? I find it hard to let people into how i'm truly feeling but luckly managed to get on with some of the nurses greatly who then in turn realised that i had to do/learn everything possible about the care/machines so that i could do it all myself when i was there otherwise i wouldnt have coped. I sometimes found it hard when certain nurses where seeing to Calum and had to leave the ward or go to a room and cry or even told them to leave him alone
Do you know how long your baby will be in SCBU?
I hope things get better for you soon and that your be home as a family before you know it.
bless her, i have some teeny tiny vertbaudet long sleeved vests that have never been used, would you like them xxxxxhi just wanted to give you these i know its horrible leaving your baby in someone's care all the time and that you do feel useless, but you are not even if you not get a cuddle with her just touching her makes a big difference and singing to her how prem was she and what is was her birth weight?
i know its horrible leaving your baby in someone's care all the time and that you do feel useless, but you are not even if you not get a cuddle with her just touching her makes a big difference and singing to her how prem was she and what is was her birth weight? 
yeah, will do when i get my computer back, im using other peoples computers at the mo, will hopefully, put quite afew on soon, like a little album, shes 7 weeks old today and weighs around 5lb, shes perfect, just tiny. xx
